Friday, August 26, 2016

Slave Weekends

In my last post, I discussed Goddess Weekends and introduced the concept of Slave Weekends.  In 
this post I will talk about Slave weekends and then sum it all up.  Enjoy!

Slave Weekends
Slave weekends have a much different tone than Goddess weekends.  The focus is more on him and 
not me.  He is still serving me and doing what I want, but the focus is on his submission and 
obedience to me and my control and authority over him.   I like to think of it as slave boot camp.  My tone and demeanor for the weekend is strict, commanding and authoritarian.  I don't ask him to do 
things, I tell him to do them.  During slave weekends we get a little kinky and cross over into the 
fantasy/role playing world a bit.  Much of what I reinforce with him is real but some of it is fantasy 
and mind games.  

Slave weekends are good for training.  If he is not doing chores properly or behaving in a manner that is meeting my expectations, I can spend time addressing those issues during the weekend. For 
example, once I was not satisfied with how he was putting my clothes away. He was very messy in 
how he folded them or hung them on hangers.  To correct this, I emptied out all my drawers and made him neatly fold and put everything away.  He was naked and I had a paddle in my hand to give him a spank every now and then when he was not neat enough.  I then had him empty his own drawers and refold everything.   This was all done in a strict but playful manner.   Another time I put a collar and 
leash on him.  I walked him around the house like a pet and did a house inspection with him.  I had 
his leash in one hand and a riding crop in the other.  If I liked how things looked, he got a nice pat 
and playful rub.  He received a swat or two for each thing that was out of place in the house and for 
areas that were not properly cleaned.  Let’s just say his ass was a little red by the time we were done.  His cock was hard too so I know he loved it.

On slave weekends, I will purposely be extra strict and demanding.  I will refer to him as slave, 
property, or my toy.  I may tease him about how he gets excited to wear panties and call him a girl, 
princess or slut.   This is all part of the fantasy and is done playfully.  Sometimes he is not allowed to speak all weekend unless I give him permission.  Once I took away his wallet, phone, and keys for 
the weekend so he could get the full effect of being my slave.  For dinner, I might have him kneel 
next to me while I eat and make him eat off a plate on the floor or we could go out for dinner with 
him wearing a butt plug and me doing all the ordering and paying for the check.  Again, this is a lot 
of fantasy play and done for the thrill.  

On slave weekends I will spend a lot of time playing with his cock and bringing him to the edge of 
orgasm.  I want to drive him crazy and turn his mind to mush because that brings out the submissive 
slave in him and sends him into subspace, where I can have lots of fun with him.  It is hypnotic when I stroke his cock and talk to him.  I like to whisper to him how excited I am that he is my slave and is obedient to me.  I love to paint a mental picture for him of his fate....that he will always be my slave 
or toy, or whatever I want him to be.  I will remind him that he will never ever orgasm again without my permission.  I may tease about things that could happen in the future such as never having an 
orgasm again or putting him in chastity or making him stay home 24/7 to be my servant.  This type of talk always drives him wild and pushes him into a deeper submissive state of mind.

I may have him do the body worship routine that I described for the Goddess Weekend but something else that is more fitting for slave weekend is a body inspection.  Instead of him worshiping me, I am 
inspecting him. Being inspected is a thrill for many submissive men.   I will have him stand naked.  
Often time I will even make him remove his wedding ring so that he is completely bare.  Then I 
inspect him like a piece of property.  This is where the fantasy play comes in.  I slowly circle him and trace my hands over his body.  My inspections are positive and not negative.  I will comment on how sexy his body parts are and order him to keep working out at the gym.  I may kiss his body or order 
him to bend over.  I will tell him that he is my property and I own him (he loves those words). I may kick his feet apart to make him stand wider.  I may have him hold his arms out to the side and when 
he starts to waver, order him to keep them up and straight. I will tell him to keep his eyes down and 
then later I will order him to stare straight ahead.  The point to all this is to create the dynamic that I 
am in control of him and he is to obey my every command without question and without hesitation.

I will inspect his balls to ensure they are bare and smooth for me.  If I am not satisfied he will get a 
little swat and be ordered to shave that night. I will tease his cock.  Sometimes I may squeeze out a 
bit of cum onto my fingers and make him lick or suck it off my fingers.  He will get a “good boy” for that.  The first time I read about feeding a man his own cum, I thought it was disgusting.  However, 
one time the mood struck me and I just did it. He was a bit surprised but did not resist. In fact, he 
seemed to get more aroused from it. It was a bit surreal for me and in the heat of the moment it was 
very exciting for me.  It’s hard to explain but I got real turned on from having him lick his own cum 
from my fingers.  It happens quite often now.  I’ve even spoon fed him before.  Very sexy!  
Something that I have discovered through all my reading is that many men actually fantasize about 
being forced to eat their own cum.  Who would have thought that?

During the inspection, I may put a collar on him.  It is fun and powerful to collar your man.  I will 
read the tag on the collar which says “Property of Kaylee.” Ankle and wrist cuffs could be added as 
well. I may make him step into a pair of panties or put a cock ring on him.  There are so many things that can be done.  You could inspect inside his ass with your fingers or a probe, cover his head with a hood (this makes him more like an object), or slip on gloves for the inspection.  You could trace a 
riding crop all over his body and give little slaps here and there.  I like to pinch his nipples hard and 
pull on them.  It feels powerful for me but also gives him a nice burst of pleasure.  Nipple clamps 
could also be used.

As I noted earlier, I like to have him naked for inspections.  However, one of our most memorable 
moments was when I had him dress femme for the inspection.  He put on panties, stockings, garter 
belt, and a bra. It’s very rare that I make his dress up like this (usually I just have him in panties) so 
he was already horned up just from getting ready.  When I inspected him in this state my comments 
were about how sexy his lingerie was.  I commented on how pretty, feminine, and sexy each item was as I traced my hand over the delicate fabrics.  Then I commented on how sexy and pretty he looked in the items…how sexy his legs were in stockings. I teased that if his legs were shaved, he would easily pass as a girl.  Then I hinted that maybe we would have to try that some time.  I probably would 
never make him shave his legs but it is fun to put that thought out there and let it linger in his mind as a possibility.  I did the same teasing about his cock, at how unsightly the bulge is with panties and 
that we would have to take care of that one day, maybe with a chastity device.  His cock was drippy 
so of course I had to wipe it up with my finger and bring it to his lips.  This time he got a “good girl” when he sucked on my finger.  I could not resist doing it a few more times and ordering ‘her’ to lick 
up the cum.

I also commented on how he dressed.  I pulled his panties up and told him that girls wear their panties nice and snug.  I did the same with his stockings and told him that he needed to make sure the seams were straight and the tops of the stockings were even.  I adjusted the garter straps, straightened his 
bra, all while making comments on the proper way for girls to dress.  When everything was straight 
and in order, I told him that’s how a princess should look and in the future I expected him to make 
sure he dressed properly for me.   All during the process, I used terms like princess, pretty, feminine, girl, soft, and sexy. This whole process really did a number on him. He was totally lost in subspace.  He dropped into a quiet, shy and passive mode.  It’s hard to describe but it was a real turn on for both of us.   This was all fantasy fun.  I have no desire to fully feminize Thomas.  It is just fun to role play it once in a while.

Sex during slave weekend is mostly him doing oral on me.  He is way too horned up for me to try 
regular sex. I’d have to stop every few seconds to keep him from cumming. Lol! I tend to be a little 
more aggressive with sex on these weekends.  I may order him to do certain things or physically force his head or hands towards my sexual areas.  I will queen him or have him kneel between my legs and squeeze my thighs around his head.     If I get in real dominant mode, I may push him away forcefully and then order him back between my legs.  Such fun!

Slave weekends are good time to try new kinky things. With all the fun, our inhibitions tend to run a bit freer than usual and so it becomes easier to explore new things and maybe even push limits a bit.  Thomas absolutely loves these weekends because they play right into his submissive fantasies.  I plan the slave weekend and whenever I announce one, his eyes light up with excitement. He is like a little kid.  Sometimes I announce them well in advance just to get him riled up and thinking about it for 
several weeks.  Slave weekends tend to overlap into the week.  It’s almost like we get a little high on 
it and we need a few days to slowly come down.   During the week after I will be a little more 
dominant than typical and Thomas will still be in a deeper submissive state. It is a nice side effect.


We plan Goddess and Slave weekends several times throughout the year. For those of you who are 
younger and have no kids, you may not need to do this because you have the time to spend together.  However, a common problem with couples when they get older and busier with life, is that they 
spend less quality time together. Planning these types of weekends helps keep the relationship fresh, 
exciting, and fun.  From the FLR perspective it helps reset and re-energize the FLR dynamic. Some 
of our best and most memorable moments are from Goddess and Slave weekends. 

I hope this gives you ideas that you can use in your own relationship. I would love to hear if others 
do similar things.

-Mz Kaylee

Thursday, August 25, 2016

Goddess and Slave Weekends

It's been a busy few months for me.  What’s good  is that it is fun things like vacation, weekend
activities with friends and family, and running the kids to different activities.  Being out of the house
is great, but it does interrupt the normal routines.  One of them for me is writing this blog, which I am trying to get back into.  Another interruption is the intimate times with my husband. We have been
having lots of fun together but there has not been as much quiet and intimate time together and I miss that.  Something that we do in our relationship to help ensure that we spend quality time together and not get caught up in the every day life, is to plan Goddess weekends and Slave weekends.  I guess
you could say these are similar to planning date nights (we do that too) but these weekends are much more....intense than a date night.  I will elaborate below.

Goddess Weekends
The focus of these weekends is me because, yes, I am a Goddess.:)   On these weekends my
husband's sole purpose is to pamper me and treat me like a Goddess.  His mind set is of worshiping
me as a Goddess and my mindset is that of a Goddess or Princess who expects to be worshiped,
pampered, and served.  It is quite easy for me to slip into that mind set.:) Examples of things that he will do on Goddess weekends include buying me flowers, giving me a bath, shaving my legs, taking me to get my nails done, massages, brushing my hair, and running errands for me or with me. I've
thought about having him paint my nails or even doing some of my makeup but have not ventured
there yet.  I am not sure if I trust him with that.

Breakfast in bed is another favorite of mine.   In the evening we will usually go out to dinner together or plan some other fun activity with just the two of us. He is basically catering to my every whim (It
is so wonderful!).   On Goddess weekends, I do not spend much time at all teasing him unless I am in the mood.  An orgasm for him is not even a thought, although on a rare occasion it might happen.
However, he will spend a lot of time pleasuring me and giving me orgasms.

Something fun that I have him do every once in awhile is a body worship ritual.  He will be naked or in panties.  I dress in a short night gown or comfortable lingerie. He will start kneeling at my feet and I will order him to worship my foot.  He will kiss it and say "I love you," kiss it again and say "I
worship you," kiss it again and say "I obey you."  Then I will point to the other foot and he will
repeat this ritual.  I will have him do this all over my body.  I will adjust my night gown as needed to give him access to my body.  I may end up naked but I do find it fun and sexy to uncover and
recover my body parts with the night gown as he worships me.   He will kiss and repeat the words for the front and back of my legs, thighs, pussy, back, shoulders, ass cheeks, in between my ass cheeks,
and neck.  It’s also fun to make him worship my armpits.   About half way through I will change the words and make him say in between kisses "Your are my Goddess," "I am your slave," "I obey you."  It is a lot of fun when you get into it.  I will make sure he is hard the whole time, which does not take much encouragement at all.  If his cock/balls are within reach, I may hold them firmly while he
performs his worship and I will reaffirm his worship by saying things like "yes," "that's right," or
"good boy."  I may make him worship my ass several times, telling him how I know a slave like him
loves worshiping my Goddess ass.  I may order him to lick at times instead of kiss. We could easily
spend a 1/2 hour on this body ritual.  It is a lot of fun for both of us.

Goddess weekends are planned in advance.  Ideally it is a weekend where we have nothing else
planned.  However, with our busy schedules ,that may not be possible and so there are many times
where we work it around activities and events (which sometimes can add an element of fun). Our
kids are older so we are lucky enough that we can leave them alone and go out for a few hours. I let
him do all the planning for the weekend. Being the leader in the relationship does not mean you have to plan everything.  This is a time where I can sit back and just enjoy.  I do require him to write up his plans for the weekend in advance for my review.  I like to review it at least a day in advance while he is massaging my feet or kneeling before me.  Then I can give him my input or changes.  He is good at planning so most of the time I accept what he submits.  If there is a specific errand I need done, I will write it in.  I will also give direction on what he is to wear for the weekend - usually panties that
match mine and I may require him to wear a cock ring.  I've also tied a pretty pink ribbon around the base of his cock to remind him of his obedience to me.  The plan is always subject to change by me.  As the weekend progresses I may decide  to do something different and he just goes with it.


Goddess weekends are fun for both of us.  One may think that I am the one who gets all the benefit. It certainly is wonderful to be treated like a Goddess or Princess.  It is one of the best perks of being the leader in the relationship. I will not argue that.  However, there is also a thrill in it for the husband.
The submissive man is excited to serve his wife this way. To server her and treat her like a Goddess,
and be viewed as her servant, is a huge thrill for most submissive men. Trust me, they will love it.  I
know Thomas looks forward to these weekends.  When you think about it, the Goddess weekend
plays into the natural dynamics of the relationship between men and women.  It is not much different than when a man is courting a woman.  He will treat her like a queen and do everything possible to
impress her and win her over.  This happens all the time during dating and early in a relationship. 
Unfortunately for most people, as the relationship continues, the need to impress goes away and there are no more flowers, and less and less spontaneous activities to keep the relationship fresh.  I find that Goddess weekends help bring back that excitement and fun that you experience during dating.

Slave weekends are much different than Goddess weekends.  There is a whole different focus and
tone. I will write about slave weekends in my next blog.

-Mz Kaylee

Sunday, August 14, 2016

Been Away and Annonymous Posting

I have been away for a few weeks and it has taken me awhile to get caught up with things at home and get back to posting.  I hope to have a new post up soon. I am glad to see there were comments and conversation on the posts while I was away. Sometimes, the best information comes from the discussion in the comments and not within the posts themselves. I appreciate the few people who nudged me to post more. I may need that every now and then.

I have a request for those posting comments - please end your comment with a name or initials.  I understand the reasons to post anonymous and have no issue with it.  The name you give does not have to be real so you can still be anonymous.  Having a name, helps with the continuity of the conversation.  It helps me understand if several comments are from the same person or is it all different people.  It also helps to understand if the person is male or female. By understanding these things, I can write more meaningful responses.

-Kaylee