Guest Post: The Perfectly Kissed Foot (by Onewhoadores)

There is nothing to those so connected and committed … so precious and

pure … as the most reverent and sacred kiss of a foot. It embodies all that is

essential and right, not only of egoless worship, but also unabashed adoration.

Bent forward and down, lips softly caress the bare and flawless top, just before

exquisite toes. They linger there as long as allowed, savoring the sublime scent

and taste, before a subtle bob silently commands them onward. They slowly

traverse the length and breath, inspiring above ever increasing tingles of power

and sovereignty … along the side, around the heel, to the arch and then the sole,

finally coming once again, now to the bottoms of those most divine toes. With

great beneficence, permission is granted to fully lave and even suckle each of the

five, taking abundant time and care to gently draw them individually within, for

the ardent adulation their majesty so unreservedly deserves.

The all encompassing thrill is incandescent.

There are so many other directed orgasmic delights that are always

thoroughly enjoyed. But none can ever match the blissfully transcendent joy of

The Perfectly Kissed Foot, and all that it signifies and acknowledges …

The total acceptance and boundless love … Above, and below … of this

mutually chosen … and cherished … ineffable realm …

Of Life Defining Devotion.

Onewhodadores

Happy Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to pause from the day-to-day activities, take a step back and appreciate the good things in life.  For the dominant wife, it is an opportune time to show off your well-trained husband in front of your family and friends. This does not have to be done in an aggressive or overt way, although some of you may enjoy the public display of control. Actions speak louder than words. The well-trained husband will serve his wife and guests, with particular attention to the women, without being told. He will clean this house in preparation for guests, set the table, clean the table, and do the dishes. He will give special attention to the female guests, ensuring they have drinks, clearing away their trash, and complimenting them. When talking, he will show interest in them and not talk about himself. Guys, are you taking notes? Ask your wife today how you can help her for Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving day be sure to be on your best behavior and an excellent servant, without being told. Be 100% focused on serving others and making their day better. Even if Thanksgiving is not at your house, you should jump in and help the host and keep your day focused on serving others and appreciating them. In doing all this, without being told, your service and dedication will be noticed and you will make your wife proud.   

It also a time to be thankful for your wife and honor her. Be sure to thank her for everything she does for you, your children, and others. I challenge you to be genuine and sincere in your thanks and appreciation of her and not make it about your submission. I also challenge you to compliment her and show your appreciation of her in front of others.

In closing, I will share an inspirational lesson called "The Black Spot." Special thanks to WL Husband, who shared this in his comments in the "Topic Ideas" post.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9zv79fY4A4

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

-Mz Kaylee

The Morning Routine

How your day starts often sets the tone for the rest of your day. If you have a very positive experience in the morning, it can energize you and put you in a great mood for the rest of the day. Likewise, a bad experience can ruin your day and make you feel miserable. Most people tend to create morning routines to start the day, especially during the work week. This helps with getting to work on time, being productive, and not forgetting things. Some people, like me have the quick and easy routing of waking up at the same time every morning, getting dressed, drinking the first cup of coffee, eating breakfast, and heading out to work.  Others will get up early and exercise or meditate, or just spend time relaxing before starting their day.

In the WLM, morning routines or rituals are a great way to focus the submissive husband on his purpose of serving the wife and are great for energizing and empowering the Goddess Wife. With many people still working form home as a result of the pandemic, now is a perfect time to create or enhance morning routines or rituals. As noted above, my routine is pretty straight forward and rigid. I do not work from home and I like my sleep so I've got my routine down to a science so that I can get up and out the door in less than an hour and half. This is partly possible because of my husband's morning routine. He works for home and so has some additional time in the morning. However, instead of sleeping in, he is required to get up when I do and have my coffee and breakfast ready and my work bag in the car, by the time I am dressed and ready to go. If it is cold out, he will start the car for me so that it warms up and if there is snow, he will clear it off for me. Part of his routine also involves emptying the dishwasher before he starts his work day. My husband also likes to exercise in the morning so he has to hustle to do everything for me and empty the dishwasher so that he has time to exercise and be ready for work.

I absolutely love coming downstairs and having everything ready to go and a warm car waiting. It is a wonderful way for me to start the day. For him, his first 30 - 40 minutes of the day are completely focused on doing things for me. I love that he is barefoot and in a nothing but a robe when doing all this. This morning routines is a daily reinforcement that his duty in our marriage is to serve me and it helps put him in submissive mode at the beginning of each day. It also make me feel special to have him serving me like that.

In the comments section of the Devotion post from last month, a few people have shared morning routines. I've shown their comments below. These examples incorporate ritual aspects such as kissing and reciting mantras. Formal daily rituals and mantras are excellent ways to keep the husband in submissive mode and focused on serving his wife during the day.

 From sub hub:

Our morning rituals, aside from the expected retrieval of her coffee and loving good morning kisses when first wakes, is assisting her in getting into her panties. I stand before her and she is completely naked. She chooses the panties she will wearing for the day, hands them to me and I kneel, holding them open so she can easily insert each foot. I them tenderly pull them and before putting them in them in their proper place, I kiss her vagina several times, thank for being allowed to serve her, then pull them in place. Then, that hug from my kneeling position gives me the "juice" I need to begin my day.

Right after that, I start her car, gather the things I have been told she needs to go with her, escort her to her car in the garage, tell her I love her, and ask (required to every day) and if there are any instructions for for the day. They could be anything to domestic chores, to wearing panties or a plug, and now.

It's a beautiful way for us to start our day.

From Anonymous

Every morning after I drop off the kids, I come back to our bedroom to do my devotion. This entails 2 primary acts in bed. The first is me covering her pussy area with loving kisses. No insertion or licking is involved. She lays in bed while my face is in between her legs. At her prompting, she would turn around and then I would kiss her ass cheeks before rimming her, which is my 2nd act. I caress her body while rimming her, and she can feel my adoration. She decides when I should finish but usually the whole process is about 5 min or less. We then hug with my head tucked below her neck and I tell her how much I adore her, that I live to be owned and used by her, that my only purpose is to worship her and to make her happy. Then we discuss our plans for the day before I get out of bed and kneel by the bedside. She sits on the side with her feet dangling and I take each foot and thoroughly kiss the bottom of each foot and caress them on my face. I then hold her soles against my chest and, while kneeling in front of her, recite: Thank you Goddess for owning me and training me. I am grateful for the opportunity to be owned and to serve you and to please you. That is my purpose in life. I promise to be a good slave for you for the rest of my life and to obey and worship you at all times so that I continue to have the privilege to kneel in front of you every morning with your feet on my heart, to kiss the bottom of your feet, to adore your pussy every morning, to be on-demand pussy worshipper whenever you wish, and to rim your ass every morning to demonstrate my submission. I then put on her sandals for her and then give her pussy a gentle kiss. She stands up and turns around and I give her behind a final kiss.

Final Thoughts

I would enjoy hearing about other morning routines. Please share in the comments what routines or rituals you do in the morning and how do they make your feel/how do they help you start off the day right. 

-Mz Kaylee

Is The 24/7 Wife Led Marriage Lifestyle Possible?

Several of the topic suggestions from my last post were related to the 24/7 Wife Led Marriage (WLM) lifestyle and how it works. There are many facets to the lifestyle and addressing them all in one post is not possible. My blog is a good resource for learning about the lifestyle so if you are interested in how it works, then it is worth your time to go back and read the older posts. In this post I will touch on some of the key aspects. For many of you a WLM is a fantasy and may seem like it could never be reality. Others may view WLM as crazy and not realistic. I absolutely can relate, because I remember reading about the lifestyle when I was younger and thinking the same things. I am here now to tell you it is possible and it is very practical. When both partners are committed to the WLM it is an excellent form of marriage that encourages communication, reduces conflict, and creates and strong emotional bond between husband and wife. I have experienced all of those benefits and many of the readers of this blog have also expressed that they have experienced the same benefits in their WLM. 

When I take a step back and look at what goes on in my WLM, it seems very crazy. 10 years ago, I would have never guessed that I would be punishing my husband, controlling when he can orgasm, making him wear panties, sending him to the corner, and expecting him to do almost all the chores. I would have never imagined that I would be getting massages from him several time a week, and that he would be giving me baths and fetching things for me without question or hesitation. 10 years ago, that all seemed like extreme domination and fantasy to me. Fast forward to today and when I am in the moment it feels so normal to me and it works very well for us. Our marriage is strong and we are having a ton of fun together. Now I could not imagine going back to the "vanilla" lifestyle. 

The 24/7 WLM lifestyle is most definitely possible but it requires commitment from both the husband and wife. Everything is not going to suddenly fall into place and work perfectly, when you both decide you want to do it. Establishing the WLM is easy; getting it to the point where things are humming along great is a journey with many ups and downs and twists and turns. At least that has been my experience. Like most new things you try in life, it takes time, experience, and trail and error to get comfortable with it and good at it. For example, most people are not going to be able to pick up a golf club and hit the ball straight and far right away. Their first game of golf will probably be terrible. Some people may learn quickly and love the game right away. Many others will take several years to get good at it, and may even get frustrated and give it up a few times along the way and then come back to it later. However, once they hit that perfect shot for the first time, there is great joy, and when they start to see their balls going straighter more often, their confidence builds and there is motivation to keep playing. You can expect similar experiences and emotions when building a WLM.

The Day-to-Day Life in a  24/7 WLM

The daily life of a WLM can vary significantly from couple-to-couple. It largely depends on how the wife wants to lead the relationship and how committed the husband is to making it work. Other variables such as, the maturity of the relationship, whether there are kids in the house, and work/family demands, affect how the WLM operates. My WLM certainly has changed over time and is much different now then when I first started.

The WLM lifestyle for most people is not about the wife exerting extreme control over the husband every day. She is not dressing in leather every day or forcing him to be naked and collared all of the time. She is not barking orders at him 24/7 and constantly punishing him. Perhaps some people live like that but the vast majority of us can not feasibly live like that and do not want that everyday. It is tiring and non-productive.  The key to the long-term WLM, is to blend the control and submissive aspects into every day life. I've written more about this in my post "Creating a Productive Environment for YourSubmissive:" https://www.blogger.com/blog/post/edit/1938012059034696763/5367148811547645825

For the lifestyle to be sustainable, there also needs to be commitment from the husband to serve, obey, and yield to his wife's authority. If he is not willingly yielding to her and accepting her authority over him, even when he does not agree or like the outcome, then it create un-needed tension that strains the relationship. Likewise. the wife needs to be committed to leading the marriage in the best interest of the couple. This means taking into consideration the husband's needs and desires when making decisions. The wife also has the responsibility of actively leading the WLM by setting clear expectations for the husband, implementing rules and routines for him, monitoring his performance, incorporating regular discipline and rewards for him, and if needed punishment to hold him accountable. A successful WLM takes effort and sacrifice to be sustainable. It does not just happen on its own. 

Benefits of WLM

The good news is that when both spouses are committed and fully engaged in the WLM principles, there are many benefits. The marriage becomes stronger, the couple grows closer together, there is better communication and less conflicts, and their happiness increases. Another fantastic benefit is that the house is always clean! For the wife, the effort she puts into leading, results in a much higher standard of living, She is being served and pampered and does not have to be bothered with boring mundane tasks and chores. She gets pleasured whenever and however she wants and sex and foreplay are primarily focused on her. Perhaps the biggest benefit of all, is that she gets what she wants and lives like a Queen and Goddess. If you are a female that is just starting out in the lifestyle, you may not be experiencing all these benefits yet, but over time with proper training and discipline of your husband, you will get there.

The husband benefits by getting to live out his submissive fantasy in real life, which helps to satisfy his submissive craving. His submission toward his wife also creates a sense of fulfillment and purpose within, which makes the experience incredibly rewarding and satisfying. It is a much deeper satisfaction than engaging in pornography or with a dominatrix or online mistress. An unexpected benefit that my husband has mentioned, is that he feels like a more productive person because of all that he accomplishes through obeying me. The WLM can also reduce stress and improve the overall well-being of the husband because submissive individuals thrive in environments where there are clear expectations and they are told what to do. Finally, even though the submissive may be denied orgasm regularly, his sex life becomes better and more active in a WLM. This is because he learns to experience pleasure in new ways. Those who discover the pleasure of being teased and denied, experience an entirely new level of arousal, and often prefer denial over orgasm. His sex life also improves because the wife learns to incorporate more teasing and sexual motivators into the marriage. 

Making it Work

Just like other relationships, the WLM takes effort and sacrifice to make it work. There could be days or even weeks where there is no overt domination. However, those days and weeks are filled with subtle domination and lots of expectations and rules. Every day, the submissive operates within these rules and expectations with the intent to please his wife. He knows that he will be held accountable if he does not follow the rules or meet expectations. Contrary to what many may think, the husband makes decisions in a WLM. It is not practical or convenient to restrict decisions. However, his decision-making is done with his wife's needs, desires, and expectations in mind. Poor decisions or inappropriate decision- making are subject to punishment or discipline. When presented with a decision, it is incumbent on the husband to exercise common sense in determining which decisions he has authority to make and which decisions need the approval of his wife or should be referred to his wife. He also understands that his wife has the final say in all decisions, regardless of his opinion, and he willingly accepts this and yields to her.

The WLM incorporate non-traditional methods such as orgasm control, punishment, rewards, discipline, training, and sexual domination. Those are some examples. There are many more approaches that are effective for a WLM and not all couples will employ all strategies. As noted earlier in the post, different approaches appeal to different people and you should use what works best for your relationship. The non-traditional methods are important strategies that teach the husband how to properly serve his wife, motivate the husband to serve and please her, and deter him from bad habits and bad behavior. These strategies should exist in both new and mature WLMs. I also encourage females to delve into the more fun and kinky aspects of female domination as these can be mind blowing experiences and great motivators for the husband. Surprisingly, a few of the kinky experiences with my husband have been the most intimate and "soul connecting" moments with him. I know I am not alone in experiencing this. Over the years, many readers have shared similar experiences with me. Hopefully this is enough to convince some of you to let your inhibitions go and try something kinky and fun.

To sum it all up, the 24/7 WLM is sustainable over the long-term when both wife and husband are committed to making it work, incorporate the dynamic into their day-to-day life, and find the right balance of control and domination that works for them. If you are thinking about a WLM or new to it, I want you to know that it is a fantastic lifestyle. It takes a lot of effort, communication, and trial and error to get it running smoothly, but once you get there, it is fantastic! I will also add that the journey to get there is an amazing learning experience that helps you both grow as individuals. 

-Mz Kaylee

The Good Devoted Slave

 

The good devoted slave is one who does was he is supposed to do when his Goddess Wife is not looking, one who corrects her mistakes without letting her know, and one who actively seeks ways to please her without being told.

BLOG UPDATE: New section added for erotic stories

It is fun to fantasize and imagine what could be, even though it may never be...or who knows maybe your fantasies will come true. In the spirit of this fun, I have added a new section to my blog for erotic stories.  Just look to the menus on the right, page down, and you will see it.

Thank you to "Onewhoadores" for being the first contributor to this section. If you would like to submit an erotic story, send it to mzkaylee101@gmail.com and let me know what name you would like it published under.

Please note that I will not be editing stories. They will be published "as-is" so take the time to spell check, format, and edit your submission prior to sending to me.

This is a blog about wife led marriage, female led relationships, and female domination, and therefore, stories should fit within those themes. Stories, counter to those themes or off-topic will not be published. Stories that are inappropriate or that I deem offensive will not be published (e.g. no stories involving kids, incest, etc.).

I look forward to others submitting erotic stories and I hope that it brings a fun new dynamic to the blog.

-MzKaylee.

Non kink based reasons for implementing FLR based techniques in your loving relationship (Guest post by AJ)

There are many reasons why women involved in an female led relationship may incorporate tools into the relationship such as orgasm management, chastity, pegging, and discipline. Most of those reasons I’ve already detailed in some of my previous posts on this site, and those previously discussed items revolve around enhancing sexual and domestic enjoyment for both partners in the relationship. What I have not touched upon in those previous posts are some additional, not widely discussed, more practical reasons why the female partner and for that matter also the male partner, may find benefit from using these FLR practices.

As we all know many men, particularly those of middle aged years and beyond, but also surprisingly large numbers of younger men, experience various issues with their penis’s. These issues can range from premature ejaculation, retarded ejaculation, as well as erectile dysfunction issues. I think men have it very difficult in this regard as they have these big (or not so big:) ) bulky physical appendages which are so out there for all to see during sex. When they have performance issues of any type, particularly with ED but also with premature ejaculation, it's all too quickly and obviously evident to us women - and to them. There are all sorts of reasons for these issues both physical and mental and it can really become a serious source of relationship angst for any couple. Some men also find it very difficult to orgasm, especially from PIV sex, which can lead to problems as well. Speaking from a woman's perspective, I feel that frequently, but not always obviously (there are multiple causes for these issues and many are very complex and some are completely and truly out of his control) a fair portion of these penile issues are self induced by a man and stem from his own self abuse issues, i.e. frequent masturbation and over indulgence in various porn imagery. When a man gets used to frequently choking his own chicken so to speak, he very often uses a death type grip on his penis which long term serves to desensitize his penis to the more delicate PIV sensations he requires for partner sex, leading to his inability to ejaculate when inside us. This can be an issue if the woman doesn't really want to engage in sex or does not enjoy long bouts of sex. All of that prolonged in and out friction as he attempts to orgasm can cause us some pretty intense pain and irritation. 

Similarly, if a man conditions himself to viewing certain kinds of porn while masturbating or leading up to his masturbation, he also can condition himself in such a way where without that imagery present in his eyes and mind, i.e. when making love to his woman instead of to the computer screen, he can also not experience all of the mental and visual stimulation that he has conditioned his body to expect for his orgasm to occur in a timely manner. When he over indulges in self pleasure he also depletes his supply of ready semen as well as throws his whole sexual hormonal balance completely out of whack. So his desire for sex may greatly diminish as result. Frequent masturbation can also lead to the reverse condition as well, premature ejaculation. He so frequently over stimulates himself that he trains himself to be on hair trigger for his orgasms. As result us women begin to experience more of the wham bam thank you mam variety of sex. He gets off but we never do. Over indulgence in porn and “self jackery” can also cause situations where he is just no longer finding himself stimulated enough in his mind to enjoy normal partner based sex and he can no longer get it up for us as result. 

Again there are many other valid psychological and physical issues which may account for these performance related issues in your man, but a fair percentage of them, I feel can be self induced by his own personal behavior. Diet and exercise, controllable items in his domain, can also play large factor in these types of issues. Obviously if we in an FLR employ tools such as orgasm management and chastity we can curtail much of this self destructive behavior and correct much of these self induced issues for the betterment of both parties in the relationship. These are the aspects of orgasm control and chastity which I have previously posted about. Regardless of whether or not the source of his issues are self made or completely out of his control, FLR tools can come to the rescue of your sexual relationship. This is what I intend to be the real intent of this post today. If partner sex is going to frequently lead to frustrations of ED and ejaculatory issues, both partners experience that pain and frustration, not just the man. The loving partner sex act then suffers greatly as result. I think subconsciously many couples may begin to dread sex because of the inevitability of these issues coming up during sex, so sex becomes, to speak candidly, more trouble than it may be worth. As a wife, it pains me to see the emotional torment and distraught that he may experience when he incurs these various issues during our love making. Take my own sexual satisfaction completely out of the picture with that. So there is all sorts of very real mental and relationship issues experienced by both man and partner when these matters routinely crop up in your love making.

How to remedy his performance issues? The very simple and shockingly “no shit” answer to this whole dilemma is to take away his ability (very largely) to use his penis during sex,  ever. It really is that simple of a solution!

Outside of all of the more kink based FLR reasons we usually think of when it comes to restricting his use of his own penis, this straight forward approach gives him and you a simple and foolproof OUT to not willingly experience his performance based issues in the future. He no longer has to feel guilty or mentally tormented by having these issues flaunted in his face every time you have sex. He can instead say psychologically, I am not being allowed to have an erection or experience an orgasm today because my partner is in complete sexual control of me today and that is not what she wants today. I am either being told no orgasm today (through chastity or not), or my penis is not at all being put in play for today’s sexual activities, so its not my fault or in my control, its totally her decision and will that I am bending to.  I’m going to be more than happy in just pleasuring her with either my mouth, my fingers or some other tool of her choosing, but not my penis. Believe it or not this simple fact or truth can be so immensely liberating to him as a man. He does not have to worry about performing that day or the next. He knows he wont then suffer the angst of not coming through for you. Similarly this is also a huge relief to us as women as we can skip the whole episode of “yup it happened again, lets clean up and just go back to sleep”. By simply saying to your man “NO PENIS” during our sex tonight, you are freeing him from this overwhelming performance responsibility he may be experiencing. But also in so doing you are also reconditioning him to experience sex in ways much more beneficial both to himself and yourself by doing that, and that is even more important as it truly will improve the sex for both partners despite him having these issues. When you take control of your mans ability to orgasm, his frequency or orgasm, or his ability to manipulate his penis at his own whim whenever he feels like it, you are setting him up for success. You are doing him a huge favor as well as one for yourself. Your love making will improve 10 fold I guarantee it. He will begin to experience sex as something which he primarily does to satisfy his partner, without thinking of himself first. His enjoyment in sex will really come down to his developing ability to bring you to complete sexual satisfaction and orgasm every time you partake. In my marriage this is almost nightly. With time, surprisingly little time, he will really experience immense self sexual enjoyment and fulfillment in simply pleasuring you. Your orgasm becomes his ultimate victory and his sense of manly pride soars as well as it becomes his own pseudo source of orgasm. By my husbands own words, he experiences a huge uplift knowing that his technique and skills brought it about.  He experiences a complete sense of physical and psychological nirvana which greatly surpass those he previously experienced when he himself was allowed to orgasm. His penis never leaves his cage when all of this occurs! It really is amazing to the both of us as to how unneeded his penis has become in our love making and how neither one of us really miss it at all in our love making. We both experience sexual and pure mental bliss without it ever coming out to play. Amazing!

By rationing and severely limiting his ability to self play as well as partner play with his penis, you are reconditioning him both mentally, as described above, as well as physically. By restricting his self touch and your touch to his penis you are making it far more sensitive to your (not his) controlled sexual stimulus and when it really counts. When you decide its time for him to come out and play, when you think he is ready AND ABLE. When you think he is deserving of that extra special treat. He is much more likely to perform physically with his penis to both your and his sexual satisfaction as result of this rationing and reconditioning. More importantly, if he does have a re-occurrence of his old issues, and with age related penile issues in particular there is still a good likelihood of that happening despite your best of care, its no longer a big deal! The number of times a year that this potentially is likely to happen will be so few. Due to your rationing of his penis's use, this won't become that mental hang up point that it once was for the both of you. It's no longer constantly on his mind and its no longer constantly disrupting your sexual experiences. By following this controlled technique, it becomes a much more manageable issue for the both of you if and when it re-occurs.

“Honey I know its still a problem and I’m sorry it happened again, but really its not that big of a deal, we have something much better going on right now for the both of us anyhow. Go get cleaned up and lets get your cage back on”.

And then just as suddenly your back to what works and feels best for the both of you for another long stretch of time. The problem is really solved this simply. Your man does not suffer and in fact his sexual satisfaction is greatly increased by employing these techniques.  Your man's frequency and your frequency of enjoyable sex will actually drastically increase following these techniques. So instead of having this relatively small number of sexual encounters which frequently end in utter disappointment for both partners, you go to this new sex which has many more occurrences, possibly even nightly if the woman desires it.  Sex where both partners are receiving highly satisfying and pleasurable stimulation. As the woman becomes to experience more and more successful instances of orgasm and/or just plain pleasure as direct result of training her husband in his sexual techniques, her desire for sex is very likely to go up. Following FLR principles your man will become much more receptive to receiving your critique of his sexual performance, and you will be able to direct him much more compliantly in those sexual activities (the proper use of his tongue, his fingers, those penetrative toys) which you find enjoyable and which result in orgasm or pleasure for you. You are re-training his sexual techniques to work for you. 

By increasing the number of pleasurable instances of sex for the woman, you are also building his confidence back up. You are making him feel successful and fully capable again with sex. He will take great pleasure in being able to satisfy you. Men are goal driven, men also respond extremely well with visual stimulation (that's a large part of why they watch so much porn), so by presenting him with this plethora of highly successful sexual activity in which he plays the leading role, you are also driving down his need and desire for porn based activities. You become his porn, and believe me you will be able to get as much sexual attention from him that you desire. This may sound worrying to a woman who is used to getting unsatisfying sex, but through these techniques a woman will find that the physical nature of sex can become extremely nice and something to look forward to. As both of you evolve in your love making, FLR style, I believe that both partners will become highly satiated with the frequency, QUALITY, and duration of sex - I know I did. Sex becomes something which you look forward to and not something which you view with apprehension and possibly dread. So its a big win for him and a huge win for her.

As your FLR evolves, you can also institute other advanced techniques into your love making. Other means of providing him with some direct physical stimulation which does not involve his problematic penis. By this I mean pegging. When you take away his ability to focus 100% of his physical pleasure on his penis, you open up a whole new realm of possibilities for both him and you. You may be surprised as to how quickly your man can become reconditioned to achieve large physical pleasure when that attention is focused to his butt and prostate. He will evolve to greatly enjoy the wonderful and pleasurable sensations you can provide him through back door activity. You are providing him with a very viable and alternate means to achieve physical sexual satisfaction, and he will love you for this. Again thinking out of the box. Making things work and wonderful when certain other things no longer work so well and aren't quite so wonderful. Sex does not need to begin or end or anything else with his penis in the equation. Don’t get hung up on performance issues and work around them, you may very well learn that when all is said and done nothing is really being given up but there is something truly being gained! I know that in my marriage our sex has never been better for the both of us. FLR and the tools of FLR not only provide us with this huge physical benefit but so many others. Our domestic life is so much better and satisfying. I have covered these other FLR benefits in previous posts. But bottom go away thought for this post, there is more to controlling his cock than meets the eye. Its not just kink! Enjoy.

-AJ