Sunday, March 22, 2015

Discipline Follow-up

My last post discussed my typical discipline routine.  I think it's good to have a routine but if you've read my previous posts, you know that I am also a proponent of randomness or variety to help keep the relationship healthy and exciting.  My discipline sessions usually occur in the bedroom.  However on occasion I will take it outside the bedroom. Sometimes it's just because I am in the mood to change it up so I might have Thomas bring my riding crop down to the living room or dining room and then conduct his discipline there. 

Sometimes I have a purpose for moving it outside the bedroom.  Administering discipline at the "scene of the crime" is a very effective method for getting your point across and ensuring he understands exactly what he needs to improve on.  For example, one time I was not pleased with how he was cleaning the bathroom so I dragged him into the bathroom and showed him where the sink was not clean, the mirror was dirty, etc.  I had him bend over the sink and I spanked him right there in the bathroom.

There is a side benefit to all this also.  Putting him in a vulnerable and submissive position in various rooms throughout the house sends a message that you have authority over him in every inch of the house.  I have made it a point over the years to perform some form of either discipline or domination in every room in the house.  One memorable moment was when I disciplined him in the garage. I rarely set foot in the garage but I wanted him to know that there was no safe haven for him (I also did for my own amusement).  He has a riding tractor, which made a perfect discipline chair. I sat on the tractor and had him lay over my lap with his panties on. So there he was on his most manly piece of equipment, laid across my lap in panties being spanked.  I loved it!  The discipline session was focused solely on the garage.  The garage was a mess.  I talked about how I ruled the house, including the garage and all his tools. I  told him that I expected the entire house, which included the garage, to be kept organized and clean.  I gave him one week to get it in order.  Honestly, I really did not care how organized the garage was since I rarely use it. I did it more for amusement and to send the message that I have authority over everything he is connected to.

I was amused at how it motivated him. The following week I made him strip completely naked and then I towed him by his cock into the garage. I was dressed in my normal "street clothes". We have a door connecting the house to the garage so there was no public display.  The garage was clean and organized. He had even thrown away a lot of old junk. I spent several minutes walking around the garage investigating. I picked up tools, looked around shelves, and opened his tool box.  Part of this exercise was to reinforce the message that I have authority over everything.  There are no secrets or hiding spots for him.  I let him know how satisfied and pleased I was with how he cleaned the garage and I spent a few minutes teasing his cock right there in the garage.  Then I had him kneel down and kiss my feet and thank me for motivating him.  To keep him on his toes in the future, I told him that I may conduct random inspections in the garage and that he would be punished if it was not clean and organized.

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4 comments:

  1. In our FLM I'm also spanked in every room of the house at one time or another. R finds it entertaining to find different positions to spank me in. You should be in control any place in the house.
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  2. I just found your blog and I love it. Your Fem Domme methods are wonderful and your husband is lucky. Do any of your friends, coworkers or family know about you and your husbands relationship and have you advised any of them on the benefits of FLR? Thanks again for your inciteful blog.

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    1. I am glad you are enjoying my blog. I do not discuss my FLR with my family, friends or coworkers. I prefer to keep this aspect of our lives private. However, in public I am still the leader. I expect Thomas to obey me, listen to me, and anticipate what I want no matter where we are. I have received compliments from family and friends on how happy we are as a couple and how nice and helpful Thomas is. Part of the reason I started this blog was to help others who are interested in FLR, to learn more about it. There are a lot of blogs on Femdom but none seem to get into the details and provide real life examples. Most are either pure fantasy or just theoretical or just provide basic information. They do not provide women solid examples and ideas of how to live a FLR.

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  3. "Sometimes I have a purpose for moving it outside the bedroom. Administering discipline at the "scene of the crime" is a very effective method for getting your point across and ensuring he understands exactly what he needs to improve on."

    This is so very true. Just now ... Mistress K. was needing some help with her Fantasy Football team. In my desire to be helpful, I became impatient, insensitive and ended up speaking to her as if she was a child. We were sitting next to each other on the couch. She looked at me sternly and said "stand up, NOW". In about 30 seconds she made clear what I did wrong and I became clear about how it should never happen again.

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