Wishing you all a happy new year! With a new year approaching, it is a good time to think about how to make your WLM even better. To my fellow Goddesses, think about changes you can make to "up" your Goddess lifestyle and what things can be done to motivate your husband to serve and obey you even more. Can he take on more chores or pamper you more? Is there a new routine that can be added to your week or day? What additional rules can you add to keep him in line or make him feel even more controlled and owned by you? You can make it a goal to be more strict, hold him more accountable by enforcing punishments, or just try new things and pushing his or your limits. It can be exciting to try something completely new such as experimenting with chastity, strap-on sex, or feminization.
Adding a theme to the year can be fun. For example, you can tell him that in 2020 you are going to explore his feminine side more or that the focus will be on training him to be a better slave for you. Other themes can be that he will learn to worship you like a Goddess or that you will explore pet play with him. There is no shortage of themes that can be used. Let your creative mind run wild! Throughout the year you can buy items, set expectations and plan activities and training that support the theme. Themes are also nice because they help the submissive get into the right mind set and stay focused. It can be a fun journey to gradually explore the theme during the year, going deeper and deeper into it as the year progresses.
For those of you that are submissive husbands, think about how you can better serve your wife. What can you do to make her live like a Goddess? What can you do to make her happier? Think about telling her that you want to be a better husband and want to do a better job at serving her. Don't be afraid to ask for her help with it and ask for her to give you feedback and hold you accountable in 2020.
It's healthy for any relationship to try new things and evolve the relationship. It keeps things fun and exciting and helps the couple grow closer together. So what are you going to do about it in 2020?
Happy New Year!
Dear Mz Kaylee,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your wonderful blog. What I love most is
when Women comment so frankly about how they dominate their husbands.
It gets my blood going. Some great comments are entered under the
"Absolute Authority" entry.
Ms. Debbie goes out on dates. If she brings her date home, then her
husband is to spend the time at her mother or sisters house. Better for
a male to be under watchful Female eyes. He gave his wife a monikini as a
gift before she went on a cruise with her boyfriend. Just imagine, the wife having fun in the sun, dining, dancing and then nights of passion
with her boyfriend. This all gets my blood going.
This post is beautiful
ReplyDeleteMy wife told me in 2020 that there will be come changes. She admits I've become a very good husband and do as told, but and there is always a but. She reminds me that my childish behavior has improved but still needs some work. Starting in 2020 she has told me that I will be in little boy jammies prior to the spanking. She showed me them, cowboys and indians and I had to try them on, they fit. I will go to the bedroom, put on my jammies and wait for her. Oh she said you will still be spanked in the bedroom, mostly, but facing the wall will still happen, only this time you will be in your jammies with the bottoms pulled down. I said nothing and you best she said sternly if asked, you will say you have been a naughty little boy and Mommie gave you a spanking. If asked about the jammies, you will say that naughty little boys will be going to bed early and so the reason for the jammies.
ReplyDeleteCommenting here because I met my wife on a BDSM site, we've since become vanilla, but, once in a while I think about … well, you know, her asserting herself, and putting me back in my place. Is that so wrong?
ReplyDeleteWhy did you go back to vanilla? Have you talked to her about how you feel? Maybe she has similar thoughts or just needs the BDSM reignited within her.
DeleteNo, that's definitely not wrong, it sounds like a good idea to me. By the way, did you ask her permission before posting a comment here? If not, she should give you a good spanking. And to prevent you doing it again in future, she should keep you securely tied and blindfolded except when you are doing housework.
ReplyDeleteA possible idea for 2020, a form of bondage that I have read about but not experienced myself. The woman has her submissive male strip naked and kneel. She binds his hands behind his back and binds his ankles together. Then she takes a thin rope, loops it around his penis and his neck and ties the ends together. Now he is completely in her power, he can not even raise his head.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a fun night :)
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year Kaylee and thank you for your wonderfull blog. I wish you all the best for 2020
ReplyDeleteLove Tiptease
Dear Ms. Debbie,
ReplyDeleteIf you are the Woman I think you are, would you be willing to
share some of the details of your cruise with your boyfriend?
It must have been wonderful!
I love you for your comments.
An uncollared male
Happy New year everyone,
ReplyDeleteDoes anybody know why Mistress Sandra doesn't comment on this blog or any other blog anymore ? Anybody still in contact with her ?
waiting for your new post... finger-cross
ReplyDeleteMy mistress newyears resolution this year is to only give me max 6 full orgasms.
ReplyDeleteI got one after midnight newyearseve. Hopfullt 5 more..
This is combined with daily tease and denial when not wearing my chatity cage.
Atleast I get ruined orgasms sometimes...