Another benefit of corner time is that it can be used for many situations. There are many variations of how you can use corner time, which means it can range from a mild punishment all the way up to a severe punishment. A mild punishment would be having your husband kneel or stand in the corner for a short amount of time. A longer amount of time increases the un-comfort, making it a more severe punishment. Other ways to increase the severity of the punishment is to require him to keep his nose pressed against the wall or have him hold a coin or piece of paper against the wall with his nose You could even have him hold his arms out while standing.
I read a post where a woman had her husband hold a dildo against the wall with his mouth. I thought that was a creative and fun idea that adds a bit of humiliation to the punishment. Little things like that create a deeper feeling of submission in men, which help to elevate your authority and power. The act of being sent to the corner in itself is embarrassing for men as they are being treated like a child. This clearly demonstrates a superior/submissive relationship similar to a mother-child and I think that dynamic is another wonderful benefit of corner time.
I also like corner time because it is a quiet punishment. I don't spank Thomas anymore because I have teenage kids and I do not need to be explaining to them why they are hearing loud slaps in our bedroom :). Instead I close the door and send Thomas to the corner. If the kids come knocking, then he grabs his robe. So far that's not been a problem. Because corner time is so discreet, you could even do it while away or if others are in the house. I've teased with my husband that if he acts up when we are with friends, I'll send him to the corner while they are in the house. If at someone else's house, I'll make him strip naked and stand in the bathtub. I don't know if I'd truly to that but it is fun to tease him about it and it certainly keeps him on his best behavior.
Corner time is also a good add-on to a spanking or other punishment. After a spanking, the husband could be sent to the corner or he could be spanked while standing in the corner. So far I've only used it as a mild punishment. I'd almost consider my use of it as a combination of punishment and discipline. A constant struggle with Thomas is putting dishes and laundry away in the right spots as well as paying attention to some of the small details when I give him tasks to do. I started to use corner time as a way to punish him for his lack of focus and to motivate him to do better. For every item I find in the wrong spot, he gets 5 minutes of corner time. I find that less then 10 minutes it too easy for him, so he gets a minimum of 10 minutes in the corner. He knows to strip naked and kneel in the corner when I send him to the corner. Sometimes I will order him to wear his punishment panties or I may have him stand in the corner and lower his panties to mid-thigh or at his ankles and he must not drop them or his time in the corner is extended.
Since I implemented corner time I have noticed that he pays more attention when he puts things away and tries to remember where some of the less frequently used items go (those are the ones that often give him problems). His corner time has become less frequent, which is a great thing! It really is an easy and effective punishment. If you are not comfortable with spanking, corner time is a great alternative.
-Mz Kaylee
Thank you Mz Kaylee for a wonderful post, easy and clear and it shows its all about control and not about kink, though the control makes it hot :-)
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My wife also uses just corner time as punishment. for example if she is watching one of her shows on tv and I keep making comments about it she will send me to the corner in the same room so I can hear it but am not allowed to talk
ReplyDeleteSounds very effective and easy to do. That's what I love about corner time.
DeleteAfter every spanking, my wife assigns me to corner time. I never know how long I will be required to stand there. I am not aloud to touch my bottom or genitals which I did once and received an immediate second spanking.
ReplyDeleteCorner time does seem like a good add on to a spanking. I bet it is torture not knowing when it will end. My hubby knows how long he is in for but he can not see a clock and does not wear a watch so he has to wait for me to tell him when to stop. A few times I've not paid close attention and he ended up spending more time in the corner than planned.
DeleteCorner time is always, I feel so little, she enjoys seeing her work, and I need to get myself together. I have been seen by my mother-in-law, her best friend, and once by a neighbor lady. I mostly dressed with pants and underpants around ankles and a few times naked. I find corner time worse than the spanking.
ReplyDeleteIt must be extra embarrassing to be seen by others. Thomas and I are very private about our WLM so I won't be doing that with him but for couples like yourself, where you are more open, I Can see where that make the punishment tougher and makes you feel super submissive and owned.
ReplyDeleteAnother idea (that I have read about but not experienced): a dominant woman had a walk-in closet in her home. She fitted a bolt to the door, on the outside. When she wants to punish her husband she simply locks him in and he remains her prisoner until she feels like letting him out.
ReplyDeleteHello Mz Kaylee,
ReplyDeleteI have experience with something very much like the comment about. We have made the area under our basement stairs into a mini dungeon. We added a lock on the door which I lock and then pull shut. I am effectively "locked in" until she decides to let me out.
On occasion she come down and instead of just letting me out switches off the light. That also adds a brand new element of fun, time seems to go (much) slower then.
Thanks again for ALL the great work on the blog!
robby.
That's a good idea, robaslave. It wouldn't work here, as we live in an apartment. At the most, my partner could lock me in the bedroom. One idea I have experienced is when she is visiting a girlfriend and wants to prevent me going out while she is away. I am stripped to my underpants and my other clothes are locked in a closet; she takes the key with her. If there a fire or other emergency I can leave the apartment, but there is no way I can go to a bar or whatever.
DeleteAM and Robby, those are interesting concepts. It's like doing jail time. Robby what if you have to go to the bathroom? I would imagine being locked away could also be fun play instead of a punishment. You become a toy that is put away until she is ready to play with you.
DeleteMz Kaylee,
DeleteIt is very much like Jail time, we have played with the notion of my wife being being able to jail me for set times lately. For instance forgetting a chore (may be an hour or two in jail). A major infraction like breaking my chastity requirement could be 30+ hours. Which I would have to serve within a set amount of time. Usually a month for that many hours. That means several hours (and potentially) overnight. For that I take a glass with me, if I really need it... It is punishment and enjoyment to be sure (but a few hours in (It is more punishment by far).
That sounds like a very good idea robby. Being locked in a basement room as your wife's helpless captive for as long as she feels like keeping you there sounds enjoyable, but I can well believe it is also punishment when you are there for a few hours. I guess it is like when my girlfriend paddles my bottom so hard that I can't sit down for the rest of the day.
DeletePS. The last time I was just "anonyomous". I guess I had better choose a nick, so I will use the only garment I usually wear at home.
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I can easily imagine how doing corner time can be effective. My Wife doesn't use it to discipline or punish me but there was one event a couple of years ago that fits it. We were travelling at the time. We had an argument and I forgot myself and I spoke rudely to Her. When I realized it I appologized (I am more disciplined now in this regard, but I still slip here and there) but I knew I was in trouble. When we got back to our hotel room She first denied me access to the toilet (and I needed to go). She ordered me to strip naked and then I had to assume the position with my feet wide apart, bending over and grabbing my ankles. She also pulled the belt out of my pants. I was certain She was going to belt my behind and thighs but apparently She changed Her mind. She just hand-slapped my balls (painfully) a few times. She took a shower and then watched some TV in the bed. The entire time I had to remain in the humiliatingly exposed and increasingly uncomfortable position. I pleaded with Her to at least let me pee. She mostly ignored me, She only sternly warned me against relaxing my stance. I nearly lost the control of my bladder and my legs were burning before She finally allowed me to go and relieve myself, after more than half an hour.
ReplyDeleteEven though my penis got fully erect when I was told to strip, I soon lost erection. At the end I felt, well, really punished and humiliated, my penis at its smallest shriveled state. It turns me on now when I remember Her stricness and domination, but at the time I was truly humbled, disciplined and very obedient. And sorry for what I had done. For me there is something arousing andbat the same very humbling in being forced to present my exposed anus and dangling small genitals in such vulnerable position, even just to my Wife who saw it all countless times.
Thanks for sharing. Sounds like a very effective punishment for many reasons.it was immediate and unpleasant, yet a little arousing. That is a great combination that deters bad behavior while also deepening your submission to her. She did well!!
ReplyDeleteCorner time in this household is two fold: First its reminds me of who is in charge along with the feeling of being a naughty little boy. Second it shows others who runs this household, have been seen facing the corner with pants and underpants around my ankles and also naked facing the corner. I do not speak unless spoken to and when asked if I was naughty I must say yes and add that Mommie spanked me. Talk about feeling little, that does it. The one time and only one time that I spoke I found out quickly that my wife would do what she said and spank me in front of another person, happened to be her best friend, but then she spanks her husband, still did not like that, and spent extra time facing the corner with a very red, sore bottom. Jack
ReplyDeleteI wish i had a wife like you to love, worship and obey.
ReplyDeleteI have not done a lot of this (yet) with my husband. However, during one of his "confessionals" he told me that a former girlfriend of his did this with him and that it had an amazing impact and was one of the first times he deeply realized he was as submissive as he is with the female gender. He told me that the girl was annoyed with him (very) one day and just "sent him" to the corner of her apartment and said "stand there". He said the authority with which she did it was what "did it" to him. He felt he "had to comply". He said it was embarrassing but in a way also comforting to have her "take over" like that. She did it several times after that. Your post made me think.
ReplyDeleteFor me it is Wall Facing, could be in the kitchen, front room, never in the bedroom. My wife wants to insure I do not rub. If someone drops in, I stay facing the Wall. My wife best friend knows of the spankings so not surprise to see me facing the wall, my mother-in-law enjoys see my very red bottom. Wall facing is worse than the spanking, if asked why I was spanked, I must respond that I was a naughty little boy and Mommy spanks naughty little boys. My wife enjoys being called Mommy, and reminds her guest that in this home, when I act like a naughty little boy I will be spanked as one.
ReplyDeleteMy wife and I have been in an FLR for just over 3 years now. We are an older couple and she has a grown daughter (25). Corner time is my wife's go-to punishment. She uses it often. No matter how worked up I am, corner time does help relax and focus you.
ReplyDeleteMy wife is very much into humiliation and we practice many forms but I think her favorite is putting me in the corner when her daughter is home. She knows how embarrassing it is for me so I am usually on my best behavior when her daughter is around. But if I slip up, I am lectured in front of her daughter and put in the corner in front of her. It's very effective, trust me.
Aside from that, most of my corner time are short bursts designed to put me in my place and calm me down. I highly recommend it to any couples interested in a d/s relationship.