This past weekend I was inspecting Thomas's underwear drawer and I realized he has just as many panties and boys underwear. Add in the two pairs of stockings, garter belt, and bra that he owns and he has more girly things than boy things. What an exciting discovery that I had to share with him! I did have fun teasing him about how his panty had grown so large. Now the bra is not something he wears. I bought it for him as a deterrent of bad behavior. If he starts acting up or develops a bad habit, all I need to threaten that he will have to wear it under his shirt and buy something at the corner drug store and his attitude immediately changes. So it is a punishment tool but it is still part of his lingerie collection and something to tease him with for fun.
I have a six drawer lingerie chest. I announced to him that since he had such a large collection of girly things, it only made sense for him to have one of the drawers in the chest. I cleared out the bottom drawer to make room for his items. His assignment was to move all his girly items from his underwear drawer to the lingerie drawer, with the exception of two pairs of panties. I still wanted a few pairs to remain with his underwear just as a nice reminder. He of course had to do it while wearing pretty purple panties.
It made for a fun night. I enjoyed teasing him about how he now had his own drawer and that we now might have to buy more stuff - maybe even real lingerie such as a teddy. He was quite quiet but fully aroused the whole time. I know he loved it but was a bit shy or embarrassed about it (which is part of the enjoyment for him).
Mz Kaylee
I have not quite ventured beyond having my husband wear panties from time to time. This was initially a bit of a leap for me. It was not without some support from a more experienced wiser woman that I gave it a try. Though I have always been the dominant partner in our relationship all I can say is that the panties did "something". He had some initial shyness and I had to take a very strong "you're doing this" sort of approach. I did not "ask". I do not always make him wear them but sometimes I do. While he is always generally submissive to me the panties still seem to do "something". I feel as though when he is in them he is a bit quieter, a bit gentler a bit (even more) more agreeable. There is a gentle timidity about his demeanor that I love. I also feel like it is a "secret" between us and I have a certain power (even more) over him. I have never told anyone except one truly close girl friend but I think he still feels tremendous vulnerability when he is in a pair. I love that.
ReplyDeleteI love everything about your above comment Jessica. You describe the look and demeanor so well. It is something I truly enjoy with Thomas. I also love that Thomas gets aroused by it. He can not control his arousal and it embarrasses him, which I get a bit of a thrill from. Anytime I take him panty shopping, he gets aroused right there in the store. You can imagine the fun I have with this.
ReplyDeleteI have not (yet) taken my husband lingerie or pantie shopping. I have only bought him pairs myself. I like this idea....a lot. I know it will be a bit of a challenge for him but also think it would be way fun.
ReplyDeleteOh boy ladies, this is like total fun corner on this one I have so much fun with panties in my marriage. You would be absolutely amazed at how much of our flr revolves around these pretty little things, it’s a sin.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I would like to climb on my soap box a bit on this one and address my fellow sex out their who might be reading. Get over your inhibitions and crazy worries about the pantie’s ladies! Like many of you, earlier on, in the vanilla stage of our marriage, I had those same crazy concerns. Oh my god he must be gay or he’s a cross dresser or he’s this or that. All of the things we women and men are programmed to believe in from the start. Everything and everyone needs to be labeled and put into some sort of sinister box if it just is a bit out of the ordinary – and I was right there with you on this one. But…. over time as we played and dabbled in various aspects of femdom and flr etc in our marriage, I soon realized that all of this was baseless and total nonsense, at least in my book. It’s a kinky wonderful fetish that I think that if many couples just experimented with it, even the more vanilla ones, they could have so much cool sexy fun with this one! Men’s underwear is so frumpy and in a word - unsexy. Women’s underwear is so gentle and soft, silky and caressing, dainty and frilly – in a few words “just plain hot and sexy”! When you think about it, why wouldn’t any “straight” man be triggered and turned on by the thought of panties just by fantasizing about all of the beautiful women out there wearing those wonderful itsy bitsy things over their naughty bits. Personally, I think it would be more worrisome to me if my husband wasn’t thinking those kinds of thoughts! The only difference in flr (or just any other form of good old-fashioned sexual play) is that you turn the tables against your man by leveraging this male thought perversion against him, if he has that kink, “or”, even if he doesn’t have that kink and but you do! Leverage this sexual prop in your play and in your everyday life you will be amazed at what sort of fun results you can achieve with your man on this one. Anyhow, stepping off of my soap box now – but just give it a shot and try not to worry so much about stuff that doesn’t need to be worried about….
For scientific purposes earlier tonight, my husband and I did a little inventory session of his panty drawer. I had him strip down to the buff with just his chastity device on and we went through the contents. With very few exceptions, I have him wearing panties every day now. He has just a couple of pair of “normal” men’s underwear that I have tucked away for safe keeping for emergencies such as a doctors’ visit etc., but day in day out my man is in panties these days and I love it. Anyhow I had him lift each of “his” neatly folded pairs out of his scented lingerie drawer and had him count them off. He’s up to 13 pairs now! Since he’s also in chastity pretty much 24x7, he tends to wear out the fronts of his panties a bit quicker than say might I had I been wearing those same panties, so we have a quicker turn around on the life, in fact this inventory was a bit useful as I think we need to retire some of his pairs due to wear out. The metal from his cage and his PA piercing rubs a bit here and there in spots especially when he’s in an excited state, which is pretty much always I think. But his tiny little cage also keeps his erection from developing more than just a little bit, so it doesn’t show to much I think when that does happen (darn). My belief is that he has a bit of a silk fetish, and that the silky lacy material against his bare skin along with those panty perversions of his keeps him nearly constantly aroused. And I love that this occurs and this is exactly what makes it so much fun to have him wear them! Being in long term chastity he is also frequently leaking a bit of pre cum as well into his panties throughout the day, so this also plays in well with our little fetish game.
ReplyDeleteEarly on, I would just go out shopping and when I did my panty shopping I would just occasionally drop in a pair for his wear. No rhyme or reason to it just when the mood struck me. Over time this developed into something a bit more special and fun. Now I like to associate each new pair of panties he receives with some sort of milestone event in our flr marriage. I like each pair to have some sort of special meaning to him. Just recently he experienced a totally “mind induced” orgasm. While going down on me last week he just orgasmed while wearing his chastity device. No physical contact whatsoever to his penis! That was a wonderful experience for the both of us – especially me. I still get all hot and bothered thinking about that…. Anyhow, I thought that rated a special new pair of panties for him just to celebrate this special milestone event and so that he would think about it every single time he wears these panties for me. I now involve him directly in panty shopping. We (I) make a sexy stimulating event of it – which he absolutely hates and which I absolutely love! I drag him down to the large shopping mall which is about 30 miles from our home and which has a Victoria’s Secret and a Soma in it, and I take him panty shopping which he is SO embarrassed about. I make him come into the store with me, and we look through the various bins and hangers for pairs that I think he would look nice and sexy in. I don’t try to be too obvious about it, but I also don’t especially try hard to hide the fact either that we are there shopping for him – that’s part of the fun. We tend to go when those stores are quieter, so we stand less chance of being some sort of spectacle. Especially in the Soma store where they seem to have less turn around of their staff, there is now a somewhat older lady attendant there now who seems to recognize us when we come in -- she sort of gives me and my husband a smiley knowing look when we come in (love it!). I then casually go around with him in the store and pick out a pair here and there and ask him how he likes them and if he thinks he would enjoy them. I do that pretty quietly and nonchalantly, but I’m sure if someone was really listening in they would catch on to the fact that I’m asking him about his own wear and not my own. Also, I think the sales lady might have caught on to the fact that the pair of panties we are buying is several sizes too big for my somewhat petite frame. Anyhow I try not to make it too pervy for the staff or anyone else in there shopping, but I do also have some naughty fun with it….. Meanwhile my husband is blushing 3 shades of red. By the ways, his latest pair is a really sexy low hanging yellow pair with black polka dots – love them, and I think I might even buy a pair for myself I like them so much. After buying him his panties, I always make sure that my husband carries the dainty little lingerie store bag in his hand – like the true gentleman he is – while we continue our shopping trip. We normally then also hit the Bed Bath and Beyond store and/or Yankee candles to satisfy my more personal own fetishes. He then carries all of those bags for me which he also detests and is embarrassed about. That must be a guy thing, I’m not sure why he would feel embarrassed to carry my bags, but he does. So that’s the rundown on how we shop for panties for him today.
ReplyDeleteDo what my wife did, and make him go into the store without you (when there's a couple of customers there), with a specific list of three panties to buy like peach V.S. print hiphuggers, floral print briefs, and ask that saleslady to help him find them. The tell him to get her to sign him up for the Cardmember Rewards program while he's at the register. He will never forget the experience. I now have over 30 pair of panties in my panty drawer, and bit by bit I noticed my men's underwear have dwindled in number. I also have over 700 points on my card from online shopping, if I don't make a purchase within a year I will lose all my points. I learned that day that talking back to my wife is never a good idea.
DeleteAs we were doing our little inventory tonight, I would ask him to identify for what special milestone occasion they were each associated with and why we had picked out that particular pair. This also embarrassed him deeply but it also made him all nice and quiet too. That’s when I know it’s really affecting his submissive qualities and touching him the way I want this all to touch him. He is going deep into sub space just by showing me his collection. His little penis was all tented up in his cage and leaking nicely! Afterwards as luck would just have it, I dragged his little cute butt over to the bed and had him get busy with his talented tongue on my now dripping wet pussy. Ladies you’ve got to love this. For every dollar in panties I buy him I bet I get at least 10 orgasms from my horny little guy. How can you go wrong with that?
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