- Endless pampering whenever you want
- No need to do laundry. That's his job now.
- Kitchen cleaned & dishes washed and put away every night
- No more pumping gas
- Bills are paid every month. I don't even think about them.
- Orgasms whenever I want, however I want and he expects nothing in return
- A play toy (him) to play with whenever I want
- Coffee ready for me every morning
- I have the final say in all matters and he knows this and agrees to it. He yields to my authority and decisions. This means arguments are practically non existent.
- He anticipates my needs and wants and strives to make me happy. This is huge!
- Gifts and flowers from him just because he appreciates me
- Open communication. We talk about anything.
- I never have to clean a bathroom again. Yea!
- My clothes are ironed every day
- I do what I want
- He does everything I tell him to do.
FLR's are fantastic! This will not happen all on day one. It took many years to get Thomas trained properly (and he will always be in training). In the end it is a wonderful thing. I could not imagine any other way.
-MzKaylee
Mz Kaylee, I just discovered your blog and read through all the entries. You have one of the most realistic views of FLR/Femdom I have ever seen. My wife is less consistent than you but more strict with orgasm denial and punishment, but your writings have inspired me to be a better servant to her. Thanks for sharing! Slave j
ReplyDeleteSlave j- I appreciate your comment on consistency. That is probably one of the biggest challenges in a FLR. Let's face it, sometimes life just gets in the way, especially if you have kids. I am just as guilty. I may go a month without a discipline session or go a week without spending much time at all with Thomas. That is why I try to spend some time each month planning. It helps me stay on track or get back on track if I had a busy month. You, as the submissive, can also jump start the FLR if things are starting to stall. Sometimes even the leaders need a little push. Simple things such as offering to give a massage, preparing her bath without being told or just giving a big hug and saying "I miss you", will help recharge the relationship.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the advice Mz Kaylee. We do have children and business. I plan to offer her a massage to give that gentle push. I think I need to offer a little clarification on my part though. Our FLR doesn't fall by the wayside. My wife is always quite dominant (bossy) while also being very affectionate. She does take time to reinforce her dominance, but only every once in awhile...but when she does it's usually severe (I'm not complaining about the severity). However, she simply expects me to run on autopilot in between... sometimes 4 to 6 weeks. I was having a slightly bad attitude (though no lack of affection on either my part or hers) about this, but your blog inspired me to remember mine is to make her life easier and more pleasurable while expecting nothing in return...my place is to be happy in service. Thank you for reigniting my motivation! And thank you for this wonderful blog! I truly appreciate your entries!
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MzKaylee = thank you for a great post. My Mistress suggests a few more advantages to your excellent list.
ReplyDelete1) She has complete control our money and can spend it as she likes. I am kept on a small weekly allowance for which i am accountable
2) the house is cleaned weekly ( dusting, vaccuum, windows, etc) by me.
3) She does not worry about making beds or keeping her closet neat - both are my responsibilities
4) She prepares meals when she wants. Otherwise i prepare breakfast, lunch (when home) and dinner
5) i fetch things for Her on demand.
i'm sure there are more advantages that we could come up with. Interesting, these Mistress is not the only who benefits, i do as well. i was born to serve her.
thank you again for your excellent blog.
sub t
Just found your blog and love it.Have been in a FLR going on 4 years now and can relate to so many things you have posted. R R
ReplyDeleteDear Mz Kaylee
ReplyDeleteAlong with no more arguments or upsets, we save lots of time that used to be wasted on endless discussions, with both of us negotiating for what we wanted.
Post FLR, my wife often invites my input, but as she always has final say, decisions are made very quickly. I am very happy that it is so liberating for her not to have to compromise, and I find seeing her happy just reinforces my desire to submit and serve her even more.
Thank you for your excellent blog.
Kind regards
M. Toads
Kaylee, I am loving your blog as well as find it helpful. I am progressing but much still feels new
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