This topic is on the fun side of things. There is common advice published for men that tell them how to find a woman's g-spot. Basically you put your finger inside her sex and then bend it forward like you are gesturing for someone to 'come here.' I have discovered that this technique can also be applied to men to drive them wild. Perhaps some of you already know this but it was new discovery for me and so I thought I'd share it.
Sorry to get vulgar here but it is the only way to describe it. You want to start with your finger pressing into the edge of his anus or right on the rim. Then make a long "come here" gesture with your finger, going all the way from his anus to the base of his balls. If you do this while he is fully aroused, it will feel good for him. There are many ways you can experiment with this gesture. You can do shorter gestures, starting just behind his balls or midway between the anus and balls, and doing a short come here gesture pressing into balls (hooking them with your finger at the base). I find quick short strokes are a great tease. You can also apply different pressure - use just your finger nail with light or moderate pressure or use the tip of the finger and press hard. You can press pretty hard in this area and it does not hurt. In fact, he may like it better that way. I've also found it to be a great tease to just press with your finger in various spots. You can follow the same path from the anus to his balls but instead of flicking your finger, you are pressing firmly and releasing over and over again as you move along the path.
Using just this technique alone will make him feel good but usually is not enough to make him orgasm because there is no pressure on his cock. I like doing this in between teasing his cock. I will tease his cock and get him to the edge, then I will lightly caress his balls and then move down beneath to do the "come here" technique. This allows him to come off the edge a bit but still keeps him aroused.
Now if you really want to drive him insane, use one hand to do this technique and use the other hand to simultaneously hold his cock firmly or stroke his cock. Just a warning that he probably will not last long. You will bring him to the edge very quickly if you do this and it will be very hard for him to hold back. I find it quite fun to do this when he is super aroused and then tease him about how weak he is because he can only last a few seconds before begging for release. If you want to give him a mind blowing orgasm, then use this technique and when his orgasm starts keep going but apply very firm pressure underneath during his orgasm. He will have a very explosive mind blowing orgasm.
For those of us that have an orgasm control regiment, this type of orgasm is not something that would be usual. I allow my husband just a few orgasms a year and sometimes they are even 'ruined' orgasms. However, once in awhile I do like to allow him a really good one. It is a nice reward for him and lets him know the incredible pleasure I can bring him if he does an excellent job pleasing and serving me. You have to dangle that carrot every now and then to keep him motivated. For the other times, I use the technique just for fun erotic torture. It is a nice quick way to bring him to the edge. Enjoy!
-Mz Kaylee.
Mz Kaylee,
ReplyDeleteI truly enjoyed this post! I have experimented often with this area. This area is exactly the path that semen flows through during ejaculation. If you press firmly enough in this area during his orgasm then you can cut off completely the flow of any semen being expelled and it will simply be redirected in to his bladder (not at all dangerous). I know you like to sometimes ruin his orgasms and I was thinking you might want to try this in the future. No, this method isn't a ruined orgasm...but if you give him an orgasm and he doesn't expel any semen I think that will blow his mind a little bit. For most men when you do this they will experience a slightly less full on orgasm...maybe like 80-90% of what a full orgasm with the release of semen feels like. It'll take practice for you to find the best spot to apply pressure and you have to apply a LOT of pressure to completely redirect the flow of semen and not allow it to be expelled. I can easily do this to myself, but trust me it takes a lot of pressure and you have to maintain that pressure throughout the entire orgasm.
And to take things further...your husband can train himself to cut off the expulsion of semen completely during orgasm by Kegeling. I'm sure you're familiar with this practice and I hope you have your husband routinely practicing this exercise. I Kegel every day and my muscles there are so strong at this point that if I bear down really hard on one really long Kegel during orgasm I can redirect my semen in to the bladder by only flexing my sphincter muscle and not pushing down on that area as described above. So I can orgasm fully without a drop of semen being expelled. But of course it took a while of training those muscles before they were strong enough to achieve that.
Maybe that's a game you could play with your husband. Perhaps you could get him on a Kegel regime (if he isn't already) and tell him that the goal is for him to have a full orgasm without the release of any semen. You could explain to him what I described above and tell him that he can have a full orgasm, but only if can retain the semen. You could manually stimulate him and have him bear down during his orgasm. If any semen is released then you stop all stimulation and ruin his orgasm. If he can retain it then he gets to have that full orgasm. You do need to tell him that he needs to bear down hard right before, during and for at least 30 seconds after the orgasm to ensure there is no release of fluid whatsoever.
Mz Kaylee,
ReplyDeleteI wished there was a new post. Yours are so good!
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ReplyDeleteI wanted to say that I love the role reversal inherent in this. I think the strap-on comes to mind. Fabulous!
I very much enjoy the naughtiness of my wife penetrating me. She does this maybe 3-4 times a year. I find the sensation of her entering me to be very pleasurable but haven't exactly found the magic sensation of the prostate that some men describe. It does make me feel like I have to urinate.
ReplyDeleteStrangely, I need to have direct stimulation in order to maintain an erection, in spite of thinking this is very naughty play. I think a big part of it is psychological. Wife is totally uninterested in anal play for her.
We have a Feeldoe strapon but she has yet to use that on me. It's actually rather large, which has me a little worried. One time I was on my knees while she had the aneros inside me, penetrating me as she stroked me. It was a very intense sensation, in a very submissive position.
You must promise you will use these powers only for the greater good and never for evil!
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