F, 55, Zionsville, Indiana
2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other?
4. When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires?
2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other?
I am the Queen
3. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR si
3. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR si
tuation
FLR, we are in a committed relationship, not married, by my choice.
4. When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires?
My current Knight introduced me to FLR which was so very different for me considering I was always taught that the lady was to be the lover/wife, mom, house cleaner, etc. So when it was introduced to me I was very skeptical and resisted for several years. It was after he explained to me that my pleasure was his pleasure and one day it clicked and now I cannot imagine why I waited so long.
5. Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR?
6. Describe your current WLM/FLR situation
a. Chores my knight is responsible for all chores in the house, cooking meals, buying groceries, no questions ask. He even does my daughter’s (21) laundry, I want her to see how she is to be treated.
b. Finances/Money I have never been one to like taking care of the $$’s but insist on a weekly report.
c. Rules/Protocols
d. Punishment and Discipline Honestly I have not had to establish any in that he obeys without question and tries really hard like MASH’s Radar to anticipate my needs and wants.
e. Chastity/Orgasm Control This took a bit of time for me, again being raised that the man was always satisfied and quite frankly loved the feel of a hard cock thinking I would have to give that up. He has learned and with the help a delay spray to not cum but satisfy me after a few times holding him off and seeing how much more he was into the service side and how lack of enthusiasm he had after allowed to cum I started to hold him off more and more. He is not allowed to cum unless I give permission and it usually is monthly. We have sex a couple times per week where I am totally satisfied either orally or with him entering me but not being allowed to cum. There are a few time I will have him pleasure me with a vibrator.
f. Rituals, Protocols, routines Weekly foot bathes, massages and really something I have learned to love is we shower together and he washes my hair with a head massage, wonderful. Another ritual that is working out amazing on our journey after we shower I have my knight apply lotion over my whole body and then hand him a pair of panties that he slides on me and just before he covers 'the gate of heaven' he kisses and thanks me for the privilege! it is so much fun!
g. Fetishes or kinks I stumbled on the fact that he would be way more compliant after being allowed to cum if I made him eat his own cum and works perfectly.
7. How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in public?
5. Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR?
6. Describe your current WLM/FLR situation
a. Chores my knight is responsible for all chores in the house, cooking meals, buying groceries, no questions ask. He even does my daughter’s (21) laundry, I want her to see how she is to be treated.
b. Finances/Money I have never been one to like taking care of the $$’s but insist on a weekly report.
c. Rules/Protocols
d. Punishment and Discipline Honestly I have not had to establish any in that he obeys without question and tries really hard like MASH’s Radar to anticipate my needs and wants.
e. Chastity/Orgasm Control This took a bit of time for me, again being raised that the man was always satisfied and quite frankly loved the feel of a hard cock thinking I would have to give that up. He has learned and with the help a delay spray to not cum but satisfy me after a few times holding him off and seeing how much more he was into the service side and how lack of enthusiasm he had after allowed to cum I started to hold him off more and more. He is not allowed to cum unless I give permission and it usually is monthly. We have sex a couple times per week where I am totally satisfied either orally or with him entering me but not being allowed to cum. There are a few time I will have him pleasure me with a vibrator.
f. Rituals, Protocols, routines Weekly foot bathes, massages and really something I have learned to love is we shower together and he washes my hair with a head massage, wonderful. Another ritual that is working out amazing on our journey after we shower I have my knight apply lotion over my whole body and then hand him a pair of panties that he slides on me and just before he covers 'the gate of heaven' he kisses and thanks me for the privilege! it is so much fun!
g. Fetishes or kinks I stumbled on the fact that he would be way more compliant after being allowed to cum if I made him eat his own cum and works perfectly.
7. How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in public?
He always treats me like the Queen I am out in public and a few of my close girlfriends know and have been implementing it in their relationship as well.
8. Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)
8. Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)
Yes, 21 year old daughter/student she is home when college is out.
9. Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house works perfect.
9. Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house works perfect.
I am really glad she sees that the man in the relationship treats her mom with respect and honor and I believe she will ensure in her relationship she is treated the same way.
10. What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?
10. What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?
None that I am aware of.
11. What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?
11. What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?
How I am treated and know that if I ask for something it is ok and I do not have to justify my wants/needs to anyone or feel fear to ask for something that some might say is selfish
12. How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?
12. How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?
Well it seems each day that I am able to allow him to do more and more things for me, especially since we started. I was a very slow starter.
13. If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?
13. If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?
I do not have any changes at this time
14. Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?
14. Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?
Ladies, listen to your man if he brings up the idea and do not be dismissive. I took his conversations and actions so flippant early on and thankfully he pressed on because I am so happy about it now. Ask more than you think, he will do it! Promise.
15. Is there anything else you what like to share?
15. Is there anything else you what like to share?
Thank you Anna for giving us a view of what you, as a dominant woman, have allowed yourself to enjoy in life. Congratulations! Calibob
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ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing your journey.
How was his initial reaction to eating his cum or how is it now? That is something to consider.
And would you ever give more detail about your FLR with your daughter in the near future? I'm not sure it's strange but it's good you wish her to have some of same benefits as a strong woman.
Thanks
-Mike
The results you’re getting from making him eat his cum are spot on. I have been made to do it on a few occasions and you tend to get an overwhelming submissive feeling afterward. It’s like you never came. There is no post orgasm drop. I have hid this fact from my wife as if she knew she would make me do it every time and I am not a fan. Take care-Alan
ReplyDeleteWhat a nice profile. We are not far away. Wishh we could meet and learn more of one another's FLR. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteHello Anna , that was very nice to read about your life and how you came to the FLR lifestyle , my wife took a different path her mom was an old school wife doing housework serving food like a waitress like a maid to her dominant husband my wife’s father he was from Germany and he ruled the home kind of king of the castle BS , my wife knew she didn’t want any part of that at an early age , I was a submissive my whole life my mother and 3 older sisters well were dominant over me growing up ,I was always under the authority of women and when I met my wife well she just took over , I was submissive to her from the moment we got together and now years later our marriage is more like a TPE ( total power exchange) and I’m very happy serving her Thank you for sharing your story slave cc
ReplyDeletehello Anna, thanks for sharing your profile. I liked it a lot especially the part where you make Your husband eats his cum. I would like to try that if my Wife thinks about doing it with me. I must say You have one lucky husband.
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