Paul

 1. Who am I (name, sex, approx. age, where you live)

Paul
Male

Early 50’s

Bedfordshire, UK

2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other?
Submissive

3. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR situation (Married and in a WLM, not married and in a FLR, not married but seeking a FLR, etc.)? What is status of your WLM (Beginners, Mature, Somewhere in the middle)

Married and in a WLM

Beginners (20 years married however less than 12 months into WLM)

4.  When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires?
Late teens.

5.  Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR?
After reading your blog I developed the confidence to approach my wife about her taking control of me and our relationship. 

6.  Describe your current WLM/FLR situation
    a.       Chores
Mainly me, though my wife still likes to do some of the chores

    b.       Finances/Money
My wife controls all finances. Everything I earn is hers to do as she pleases. I am not permitted to spend anything without her approval.

    c.       Rules/Protocols
Very few specific rules except I must treat her with respect and always do as she says!

    d.       Punishment and Discipline
Punishment has been rare but when used it is usually in the form of humiliation

    e.       Chastity/Orgasm Control
My Goddess controls all of my orgasms. I am not permitted to pleasure myself..

    f.        Rituals, Protocols, routines
I am expected to attend to my Goddess’s every need. Foot rubs, foot worship, massages. I am to be available to give her an orgasm whenever she wishes. 

    g.       Fetishes or kinks

As described above, though we are both open minded and will likely experiment further.

7.       How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in public?
Some of my wife’s  friends know 

8.       Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)
1 child. Age 12

9.       Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house
Our son simply sees that his Dad respects his Mum and will hopefully grow up with the same degree of respect.

10.   What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?
Sometimes I still try to take control (top from the bottom) but this is becoming less as my wife gets used to her position and also enjoys it more!

11.   What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?
It helps me focus on the present and remove distractions.

12.   How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?
We are both definitely happier with this relationship dynamic.

13.   If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?
I think it is too early to say

14.   Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?
Don’t put off the conversation!

15.   Is there anything else you what like to share?

Thank you so much Mz Kaylee for publishing this blog. It has literally changed my life!