David

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1. Who am I (name, sex, approx. age, where you live). 

David

submissive male, living in the eastern US with my Goddess wife.

2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other? 

Submissive male focused on the happiness of my wife, Ms Debbie.

3. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR situation (Married and in a WLM, not married and in a FLR, not married but seeking a FLR, etc.)? What is status of your WLM (Beginners, Mature, Somewhere in the middle) 

We are married in a WLM. I would say we are in a mature WLM.

4.  When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires? 

I have always had submissive desires as regards my relationships with women. Strong, assertive women have always been attractive to me. I met Ms Debbie in college at a feminist meeting on campus. I found her assertive if not aggressive, and we started dating. The rest, as they say, is history.

.  Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR? 

I don't know that the concept of an FLM was introduced as such, rather, Ms Debbie just took control a little at a time and I surrendered any control I might have had. Ms Debbie mesmerized me and found myself craving her power. She has absolute control in our relationship.

6.  Describe your current WLM/FLR situation
    a.       Chores At Ms Debbie's direction I quit my job and took up working as a full time homemaker. I'm singularly focused on the needs and happiness of Ms Debbie and her mother. I do all the chores at our home as well as for Ms Debbie's mother. The women also loan me out to do housework for a few of their girlfriends. We have a rather extensive set of rules that guide me in serving the ladies. Doing chores for the women is deeply satisfying to me.

    b.       Finances/Money Ms Debbie is in control of finances. I receive a generous allowance. If I need more money for a large purchase such as a birthday gift for my wife I can usually get a loan from Ms. Debbie's mother provided she sees it as justified. Any loans are repaid from my allowance.

    c.       Rules/Protocols We have a variety of house rules that I follow in doing chores and interacting with women. As new chores are added, so are new rules. I like having rules since, if I follow the rules, I avoid the women's displeasure and make sure they are happy.

    d.       Punishment and Discipline If I follow the rules and make sure the ladies are happy. I avoid punishment when I follow the rules but not always. Ms Debbie and her mother can and do provide punishment and discipline on an ad hoc basis. The women can be quite imaginative with discipline such as corner time, confinement in my room, physical punishment, revocation of privileges, reduction in allowance, and scolding. The latter, scolding, is particularly dreaded. Scolding means I have missed something and is usually a prelude to further punishment and discipline. I fear scolding more than anything.

    e.       Chastity/Orgasm Control With good behavior I am allowed to masturbate, usually weekly

    f.        Rituals, Protocols, routines I'm have a set routine of household tasks that I have to perform, at home, at Ms Debbie's mom's house and at homes of Ms Debbie's three girlfriends I do housework for. I love routines as they keep me on track. Proper housekeeping is a priority - my goal is to exceed the women's expectations. Other protocols we have are 'No talk Sundays', 'Speak only when spoken to', as well as set time during the week for when Ms Debbie does not want interruption.

    g.       Fetishes or kinks - Ms Debbie cuckolds me. She dates other men, something I understand since she finds me lacking in the bedroom - hard to say, but true. Ms Debbie has embraced cross dressing and insists on my wearing women's clothing when I'm working at home.

7.       How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in public?

Our WLM is an open fact with close friends and family. Before I quit my job to take up full time housekeeping my co-workers were aware that Ms Debbie wears the pants in our family. Girlfriends at work routinely checked up on me and reported to her about my work. I also had to, quite openly, ask Ms Debbie's permission to go on business trips or to work late. How do I act in public? I defer to my wife or her mother. The women are always addressed as 'Ma'am' no matter where we are or who we are with. If we are out in public, visiting, or having guests the 'no talk' rules apply.

8.       Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)

9.       Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house

10.   What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?
We have an ongoing desire to find more opportunities for her exercise more authority and for me to be more submissive.

11.   What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?
I crave the absolute control she has over me and my activities. She loves her control and the sexual freedom cuckolding provides her. We both love the dynamic of a Wife Led Marriage!

12.   How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?
We've grown in our WLM. I love that she decided I quit my job to be a full time homemaker. I also love that Ms Debbie started dating other men and made me her cuckold. I have no interaction with her boyfriends except that I am to politely answer the phone and take a message should one of them call. The cuckold dynamic is exciting for me and is an expression of her absolute control.

13.   If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?
I think we could have moved faster than we did, specifically on my full time housekeeping and her dating.

14.   Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?

I'd advise women and males to move more aggressively in incorporating new elements into the FLM. Women are Goddesses and should be treated accordingly.