subbieforher

 

Femdom Think Tank Profile Template

  1. Who am I (name, sex, approx. age, where you live)

subbieforHer

Male, 30-something, Chicago area

  1. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other?

Submissive

  1. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR situation (Married and in a WLM, not married and in a FLR, not married but seeking a FLR, etc.)? What is status of your WLM (Beginners, Mature, Somewhere in the middle)

Currently single but am seeking an FLR. Have been in formal FLRs before, including stints of 24/7 for periods of time in previous relationships.

  1.  When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires?

I discovered my submissive nature early on, although it took years to figure out who and what I am and desire. First hints, in hindsight, were being extremely interested in any sort of damsel-in-distress scenes in movies and TV, and wanting to be in the role of the one being bound. As I grew into relationships, my attraction to assertive and strong-willed women took center stage.

  1.  Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR?

I’ve been blessed with having been able to suggest the idea to vanilla girlfriends and gradually introducing D/s aspects into our relationship. I decided I had little to lose but everything to gain in being able to confess my orientation to an open-minded and understanding loving partner.

  1. Describe your current WLM/FLR situation

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  1.       How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in public?

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  1.    Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)

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  1.    Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house

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  1. What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?

Fighting the urge to “top from the bottom,” learning the ropes, so to speak, with a new partner; supporting and embracing our new roles and allowing them to flourish; obedience training and humbling myself.

  1.   What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?

An FLR just feels “right” to me. My love language is providing “acts of service” and I really, really enjoy being a total “people pleaser.” As a submissive, I love being able to embrace what I feel is my true self and to love with a level of commitment that I struggle with in a purely vanilla relationship. Being in an FLR is an exciting, wonderful experience and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

  1.  How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?

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  1.  If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?

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  1.   Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?

Take your time, Rome wasn’t built in a day! If you’re a submissive, work on being the best possible partner you can be for your partner and train yourself to be open-minded to truly accepting her authority and control. 

  1.   Is there anything else you what like to share?

I love reading Femdom Think Tank. Lots of good info here. Thank you, Mz Kaylee!


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