John R (added 1/13/23)

 1. Who am I (name, sex, approx. age, where you live)?

John R.

65, Mumbai, India

2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do
you favor one over the other?

Submissive

3. What is your current marital status and WLM/FLR situation (Married and in a
WLM, not married and in a FLR, not married but seeking a FLR, etc.)? What is
status of your WLM (Beginners, Mature, Somewhere in the middle)

Married and in a happy WLM

4. When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires?

Ever since I was in my teens, I was quite fascinated by Female warriors in history like

Joan of Arc, and the comic strip Modesty Blaise where Females used to fight and kill

males. I was also in awe of the Indian Goddess Kali wherein She kills male demons

and wears a garland around Her neck, made up of their severed heads. So all these

factors attracted me towards being submissive to Women and so I too wanted to be

dominated by Females. That’s why I wanted to be in a WLM/ FLR.

5. Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your
experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of
being in a WLM/FLR?

Our marriage was pretty vanilla in the beginning, for about 20 years. Then one day I

came across a Femdom novel and when I read it, my hidden submissive feelings got

reignited. So I asked my Wife to read it and She too liked what She read. She saw the look of

reverence on my face towards Her and guessed what I wanted. She asked me if I wanted to

be dominated by Her and without waiting for my answer, She ordered me to strip naked and

kiss Her feet. I was surprised and taken aback at Her orders and how soon and effortlessly

She got into the role of a dominant. That was the happiest day of my life since then, we’re in

a wonderful WLM/FLR.

6.  Describe your current WLM/FLR situation 

a. Chores

I do almost all of the chores in the house. That includes cleaning the house, cooking,

washing the laundry, etc.

   

b. Finances/Money

She controls all the finances as She is the earning member and I’m the house husband. I

need to ask Her for any allowance if I want and She will decide whether She wants to give it

to me or not.

   

c.  Rules/Protocols

I sleep on the floor of Her bedroom and every morning I have to wake up before Her and

make breakfast. Then I have to wake Her up by kissing Her feet. I have to keep kissing Her

feet until She’s fully woken up. Then I have to bring Her breakfast in bed and stand alongside

Her for instructions if any. After breakfast, I have to run Her bath. As She’s bathing I have to

lay out Her clothes and wait on Her.

   

d. Punishment and Discipline

She is very strict and unforgiving in meting out punishments for me whenever I commit

an infringement. She has pierced my navel and passed a round metal ring into it. She has also

pierced my cock head with a Prince Albert piercing. For smaller mistakes, it’s mostly

spanking my bottom with a cane or paddle, but for graver mistakes, when She’s extremely

angry, She fastens my cock to the ring at my navel, with a metal chain, thus exposing my

balls. Then She whips my balls blue and black paying no heed to my screams.

   

e. Chastity/Orgasm Control

She hasn’t put me in a chastity device as She wants to play with my genitals every now

and then, but yes She controls my orgasm. She has trained me to obey Her commands as to

when I can cum or not (mostly not). She also likes to deny or ruin my orgasm. It gives Her

immense pleasure doing that. And I’m happy in Her happiness.

   

f.  Rituals, Protocols, routines

Apart from the above-mentioned rules/protocols, there is a very special, very rare, and

incredible ritual that takes place in Her home. (Yes, it’s Her home although I’ve purchased

it). This ritual has been conceptualized solely by Her. I don’t know how She got this idea.

Once, every fortnight, on a particular day of Her choosing, before She retires for the night, I

have to bathe Her and douse Her entire body with perfume. Then She stands naked in front of

me, with Her legs spread apart and I have to apply a good amount of perfume and makeup for

Her hairy Pussy, and make it look like a Goddess. Then I pray to Her Pussy for my safety and

well-being. She has made it clear to me that Her Pussy is my only deity, and it’s the only

deity that I should worship. I have to pray to Her always. The ritual ends with Her rewarding

me with Her precious divine, golden nectar which I have to swallow without spilling a single

drop.

   

g. Fetishes or kinks

I am to remain naked at all times. She has fastened a little bell in the Prince Albert ring of my

cock and it’s attached to a long chain. So whenever She needs my attention, She just pulls

roughly onto the rope to ring the bell. It makes a nice jingling sound.

7. How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in
public?

For a few years, nobody knew about it, but now, Her sisters and our neighbour’s Wife know

about it. We act normally in public.

8.  Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager,
adult)

My daughter 24, knew about us and now She too lives in a WLM/FLR with Her husband.

9. Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house

As my daughter knew about us, She wasn’t surprised. My Wife has trained Her to live in a

WLM/FLR marriage.

10. What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?

One of the challenges is that we cannot live this lifestyle freely like the normal vanilla

relationships, as most people in India have not woken up to this wonderful lifestyle. Even the

Women are not very willing to embrace it. Secondly, since we live in an apartment and not in

a bungalow, the neighbors hear my screams, when She punishes me. Many a time they have

come over to inquire.

11.  What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?

The thing that I like the most is that even if it’s a bit far-stretching, I like the bathing and

praying ritual, especially since I get to consume Her heavenly liquid.

12.  How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR
over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior
to the WLM/FLR?

Things have changed a lot with us. Prior to our WLM/FLR, I was a very proud, cocky, and

egoistic person. I never respected Women; always assuming that they were inferior to men.

But my Wife destroyed my pride and ego and showed me my place. It has changed my life

for the better. Now I’m very happy being in WLM/FLR. I couldn’t ask for more.

13. If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or
two things new you would like to try, what would they be?

I don’t want to change anything as such, only that I would like Her to lock me up in a chastity

device and also I wish that She would peg me.

14. Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?

I would like to say that being in a WLM/FLR is one of the best things that could happen to

any man. True happiness lies in submitting to your Wife/Partner.

15. Is there anything else you what like to share?

I think that the prayer and worshiping ritual is the best thing that has happened in our relationship

and I feel that every couple in a WLM/FLR should practice it.