Mykl (10/17/22)

 

1. Who am I (name, sex, approx. age, where you live)

Mykl

Male, adult, NC

2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other?  

Switch. Enjoy both, but currently committed submissive

3. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR situation (Married and in a WLM, not married and in a FLR, not married but seeking a FLR, etc.)? What is status of your WLM (Beginners, Mature, Somewhere in the middle)

Married, sexual FLR, Status is comfortable.

4. When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires? 

Always been naturally more in control. Never explored being submissive until I learned my wife fantasized about being dominant.

5. Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR?

I've had a great sex life considering my cock is only average. For me, sex is ALWAYS about hee. Even as a dominant, my focus was on causing helpless orgasms from sensory overload, from purely romantic to unleashing her inner animal.

When my wife, almost apologetically, said she'd always fantasized of having complete control over a man's sexuality, it was a chance to explore avenues never traveled.  Although, outside sex, our relationship would be considered normal with shared responsibilities. The domination is purely sexual.

6. Describe your current WLM/FLR situation

    a. Chores  Forget the dom/sub. We share household responsibilities equally.

 

 b. Finances/Money  Simply put, she's better with this than I am, although we discuss things equally.

 

    c. Rules/Protocols Flush. Stay clean. Don't go to bed angry. Admit and apologize when you're wrong. That goes both ways.

 

    d. Punishment and Discipline 2-3 thick diapers and a hollow anal plug for me at her whim. This can last a day, days, or a week. Toilet is off limits to me. She loves getting my ass nice and rosy.

 

    e. Chastity/Orgasm Control Chastity cage locked. She has the key. Monthly orgasm outside being milked. Sissygasms always welcome. Zero masturbating outside of a dildo only in my boy pussy

 

    f. Rituals, Protocols, routines No body hair (except arms and head) allowed. Boy pussy kept clean. 100% panties/lingerie only. Female only clothing around the house.

    g. Fetishes or kinks Anything goes EXCEPT scat, blood, intense pain, urine, animals, children (including pretending to be), cheating. Kinky is awesome, but some take it well onto a realm of perverse that has nothing to do with sexuality. Period.

7. How public is your WLM/FLR? do others know about it? How do you act in public?

Our private life is exactly that and isn't advertised to anyone other than those we choose. Even if someone gets pleasure from showing it in public, the odds of offending others is just not worth it.

8. Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)?

19 year old daughter. 

9. Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house 

She knows we enjoy our sex life, but doesn't know the details or extent of it. We're open and honest about sex with her instead of allowing her education to come from outside forces. Too many are so enamored with the thrill of sex they discover its pitfalls after its too late.

 

10. What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?

finding room for more lingerie...lol. Because of how our FLR relationship is, other than a child living with us, it's just fun...the one escape we have that keeps the outside world out.

11. What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?

I get pleasure from her pleasure without the performance pressures. Her sexploration into having a cock and encouraging a straight masculine man to discover and accept being sexualized as feminine has been as much of a surprising turn on as has my discovery of the eroticism of it. To put it mildly, the sex is intense and incredible.  

12. How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?

Other than becoming increasingly comfortable in our new roles, the friendship and trust that's our relationship foundation has only grown stronger.

 

13. If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?

In some ways, it consistently evolves. At the moment, she's wanting to see me properly dressed and used by one or more men...while caged, of course. Biggest rule, my cock is for her use only. The thought of having fresh semen dripping from both ends has her crazy...lol.

  

14. Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?

Yeah...stop believing what the porn says you're supposed to do. The whole insult/degrade,/immasculation concept is bullshit. There might be a time or place, but in a committed relationship, it does more damage than good. The bottom line is SHE has the sexual freedom for anything she desires, without breaking bonds of trust, and HIS pleasure and sexuality is completely in her hands. If honey is sweeter than salt, then encouragement, praise, and compliments will produce far better, and more satisfying, results than making someone feel worthless.

 

15. Is there anything else you what like to share?

My ass looked hot in panties. Panties are far more comfortable, and sexier, than men's underwear. I love the pleasure of feeling my manhood drip through the chastity cage while my "pussy" is being stretched and fucked until I can't stop the sissygasms from coming one right after another.  I can fuck like that for hours