Debbie

 1. Who am I (name, sex, approx. age, where you live)

Debbie

Female, executive position, Reside with my husband, David, in the Northeast.

2. My position in the relationship (submissive, dominant, or switch? If switch, do you favor one over the other? 

Dominant Goddess

3. What is your current marriage status and WLM/FLR situation (Married and in a WLM, not married and in a FLR, not married but seeking a FLR, etc.)? What is status of your WLM (Beginners, Mature, Somewhere in the middle) 

Married and in a WLM. We've been in a WLM for a long time, since college, so I'd say we are at least mature, maybe even advanced but we're always learning.

4.  When did you first discover your submissive/dominant desires? 

David and I hit it off in college when we discovered he was submissive and looking for a dominant woman. I've been that dominant woman ever since and it's progressed beyond both our wildest dreams!


5.  Describe how WLM/FLR was introduced into your relationship? Explain your experiences of how you went from discovering submission/domination up to the point of being in a WLM/FLR? 

As our friends describe it David was looking for some one to push him around and I was looking for some one to push around. LOL! As soon as I discovered David's submissiveness I took advantage of him. I had him doing my homework, cleaning my off-campus apartment, and doing my laundry and ironing, all while I dated other men

6.  Describe your current WLM/FLR situation
    a.       Chores David does all the chores. Since my income far exceeds his I decided it was beneficial that he quit his job to be a full time homemaker. David is a full time housekeeper for me, my mother and a few of my close friends. We have an extensive set of household rules and protocols in place that ensure David does things to my liking and that minimize my involvement

    b.       Finances/Money I am in complete control of our finances. David receives a modest weekly allowance to spend as he likes. I frequently review his spending and always question what he's bought. He has no credit cards but can borrow one of mine if he is going buy groceries or fuel my car. Credit cards are to be returned with recipients.

    c.       Rules/Protocols We have numerous protocols concerning his duties. I have strict rules as to how chores are to be done and when. David maintains a rigorous schedule of house keeping for me, my mother, and a few of my close friends

    d.       Punishment and Discipline I punish David for protocol violations - chores are to be done my way or there are consequences. These include physical punishment, denial of free time, revoking of allowance, and confinement. when and how punishment and discipline are to be dealt is up to me.

    e.       Chastity/Orgasm Control

    f.        Rituals, Protocols, routines We have numerous protocols, for example, I am to be addressed as Ma'am as are all women he encounters. David is to greet woman visitors, soliciting and serving preferred beverage. David is to keep my car clean, serviced, and fueled. In the morning my car is to be heated or cooled depending on season. Housekeeping is his priority and he is expected to exceed women's expectations.

    g.       Fetishes or kinks - There are a few but the first is my dating. David accepts his being a cuckold. A second kink is my feminizing david. If he is to be doing traditionally female chores then he should be dressed as a woman, right? David is expected to be wearing a dress and makeup when working at home or at my mothers.

7.       How public is your WLM/FLR – do others know about it? How do you act in public?

Our WLM is an open fact with close friends and family. I always order, appetizers, wine, and desserts. To demonstrate my authority I question, and may change, David's selections. If we meet friends David knows to step behind me hind me and to speak only when spoken to. I send David away if we meet one of my boyfriends.

8.       Do you have kids in the house? If yes, what age group (infant, toddler, teenager, adult)

9.       Describe how the WLM/FLR works with kids in the house

10.   What are some of challenges you face in your WLM/FLR?
I think the biggest challenge is how do we continually grow so as satisfy my desires for more power and control and how do we provide David with more opportunities to serve and defer to women.

11.   What things do you like the most about your WLM/FLR?
I love the absolute control I have of my husband and his absolute obedience he has to me. I have complete control at home and as many men on the side that I want.

12.   How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?
We started with an FLR but have since evolved to ways I would not have imagined, things like his enthusiastic acceptance of my cuckolding him. Nor would I have expected his resigning his outside job to take up housekeeping

13.   If there were one or two things you could change about your WLM/FLR or one or two things new you would like to try, what would they be?
I would start cuckolding David earlier than I did. What I'd like to try? How about somehow involving David with my boyfriends

14.   Do you have any advice for others who are starting out in a WLM/FLR?

Women should assert themselves early in the relationship and continually move the bar for her husband. Nothing is off limits for a demanding Goddess... She gets what she wants.