The Joys of Receiving Oral Sex

Anytime a man's face is buried between a woman's legs it is a beautiful thing.  It means his undivided attention is focused on pleasuring her and serving her.  I like to view it as worshipping her.  I just love ordering Thomas to worship me.  Just about every position for cunnilingus puts the man in a submission position and the woman in a positions of control and power which is another reason why I like receiving oral sex (any reference to oral sex in my post refers to the man performing oral on the woman).

Queening
The position that has the most dominant/submissive overtones is the queening position, which is why it is the favorite position for both Thomas and myself. In the queening position, the woman (the queen) sits upon the man's face (her throne).  Submissive men like this position because they are beneath the woman, which is their rightful place and completely symbolic of their submission.  Likewise, the woman is on top of their man, which gives her control and is symbolic of her power of him.  When I straddle Thomas's face, my knees and legs pin his arms to his side leaving him helpless beneath me.  I love that!  Now all he has to focus on is pleasing me with his tongue. I usually hover my sex just above his face so that he has to work for it. He has to lift his head slightly to start pleasuring me.  Another thing I love about this position is that I control the pace and rhythm.  Once he gets my juices flowing and I am feeling the pleasure, I can start grinding into his face as hard or as light as I want.  I can move fast or slow.  He just keeps licking while I control the rhythm and pace. It is all about me at this point and I am very selfish with my pleasure.

In the queening position you can face forward or backward (towards his toes).  I enjoy both positions and often times switch between both positions in the same night.  Facing forward, I like being able to look down and see him pleasuring me. Thomas has told me the he enjoys looking up and seeing the look of pleasure and ecstasy on my face while he is pleasuring me.  He also enjoys the view of being beneath me and seeing the underside of my breasts and seeing me look down upon him.  Facing backwards is fun too and in this position I feel like I can do more things and mover around more.  I can sit directly on his face but I usually end up kneeling over him on my hands and knees and pushing myself upon his face. In this position I can easily direct my asshole to his tongue if I desire.  My fellow Goddesses, if you have not experienced, anal pleasure by his tongue, you do not know what you are missing. It is an exquisite and wonderful pleasure.  I also get an emotional charge out of having Thomas lick my ass.  It is a power rush I guess, just knowing the he is doing something so raw and animalistic for me. When I am really in the mood, I will order him to lick me there and tell him he is a good ass kisser.

In the backward position, I also have easy access to his cock so I can tease him while he pleasures me.  I may even give his cock a lick or a quick suck.  Thomas does not get blow jobs from me so this is a special treat for him when I do it.  One variation I recently tried, which I liked, was squatting above his face with my back against the headboard.  I spread my arms along the top of the head board to give myself support.  In this position, I could squat above his face and just have him stare at my sex and worship it with his eyes.  I could almost see him drooling, waiting to pleasure me. Making him wait is all part of the tease.  Then when I am ready, I can easily lower myself onto his face and grind away.  If I need a break I just lift myself back up and rest, while squatting over his face.  I did this several times and enjoyed it immensely!

There are many variation in how you can sit upon his face.  In our spare room, we have a bed that sits lower to the ground. I have had Thomas lay with his head on the edge of the bed.  Then I can literally sit on him like a chair, with my feet on the ground and his face between my legs.  So much fun to ride him this way and he his completely helpless!  The position also works on a large ottoman or having him lye upside down on a couch, with his head on the edge of the seat cushion.  One thing I love about the queening position is seeing his hard cock.  He gets so excited when I queen him.  His cock is always swollen and hard.  I love that! Although, if I am in the right mood, I will put him into a chastity device when I queen him.  It is equally exciting for me to see his cock restrained into the small device, forced to remain small.  I know he is aroused and his cock is desperate to grow and break free from its small prison.  Seeing his imprisonment while I ride his face and take pleasure from his tongue gives me an erotic rush.

Kneeling between legs
Another favorite oral position is me sitting with my legs spread and him kneeling between them. The fact that he is kneeling before me sets the submissive/dominate tone immediately.  In this position, I enjoy putting my hands on the back of his head and pressing him into me.  I can also squeeze my thighs around his head to give him an added sense of my control and power over him. I enjoy pressing his face into my sex and then a few minutes later pushing him away from me and ordering him to stop.  I may make him kiss or massage my feet or do something else for me.  Then after a few minutes I will order him back between my legs.  I will do this over and over again until I tire from it or I orgasm.  On occasion I like to squeeze my thighs around his head and keep his face locked just a few inches from my sex.  I will hold him in this position for 30 seconds to a minute.  This is purely a power thing for me.  He is forced to stare at my sex and take in my aroused scent which drives him into a deeper submissive state. Another fun technique is to lean back, raise your leg and press your heel into the back of his head.  In this position your are using the heel of your foot to press him into your sex.  This position creates quite a power dynamic because it is as if you are laying back and relaxing while he pleasures you and you are using your foot to control him.   I also like to tie his hands behind his back or use a collar and leash on him when he is in this position. It adds to his helpless state, which both he and I enjoy.

Standing or Lying on Bed
Standing with him kneeling between my legs is another variation for oral sex and is also good for anal pleasure.  This is similar to the sitting position but it can get uncomfortable. If you are going for comfort, then lying on your back with legs spread is the position for you.  I do find it liberating lying on my back with my knees and legs spread wide and my husband kneeling on the bed with a hard cock (or better yet in chastity) staring at my sex.  When he is ordered to worship me (or often times he just knows to do it) he usually ends up lying on his stomach and orally pleasuring me.  This is a great opportunity to incorporate many of the techniques noted above. I can press him into my sex with my hands or the heel of my foot or I can squeeze my thighs around his head.  I can also tie his hands in this position.  However, often times with this position I will let him use his fingers in combination with his tongue to pleasure me.

Thomas is definitely a junkie when it comes to oral sex. He can not get enough of it and would probably pleasure me this way all day if he could.  I've often thought about declaring his tongue as his new sex orgasm and forbidding his cock from ever entering me.  An interesting thought, no?  He is always aroused and hard when he orally pleasures me. I love that!  I also notice that the more tough or rough I am when he is orally pleasuring me, the more he gets off on it.  He loves to be smothered by my sex or pressed into my sex.  He loves that I get off on it but he is forbidden to orgasm.  I am not a big dirty talker but I know dirty talk excites him.  On occasion I will get in a mood and order him to lick me harder, deeper or faster.  I will tell him that his place is beneath me, pleasing me or that he is good ass licker or that I like that he is a dirty boy (or girl if in panties) for me.  He has told me that he loves when I talk like that and that it drives him deeper into submission and creates a lasting memory for him that he enjoys.

There are many other variations of oral sex.  It is fun to experiment and try new things.  When practicing denial with your man, you may find that having him orally pleasure you regularly is a nice replacement for his cock.  Go forth and experiment!!

-Mz Kaylee