The past few weeks have been busy for me with work and personal things. Little time has been spent with my husband. Despite this lack of attention to Thomas, he made my coffee every morning, kept up with his chores, and kept the house in order. He did everything possible to please me and even offered extra help knowing my busy schedule. This dynamic is the essence of a FLR. FLR is not about whips and kinks that you see in the mainstream media. The kinks certainly are a part of the FLR for many people, including myself, but they are only a small piece of the overall FLR.
The FLR is more about a lifestyle decision to accept the woman as the lead. It is about the male embracing his obedience to his wife and striving to please her. I also believe there is responsibility of the woman to take care of the male's needs. Life does get in the way sometimes but in a healthy FLR the underlying dynamic of the FLR remains intact during those busy times. I am grateful and pleased that Thomas continued to server and please despite my lack of attention towards him.
I will make sure that I take time to focus on his needs. As the lead of the relationship it is up to the female to ensure that the busy times do not drag on too long and hurt the relationship. My way of dealing with this is to set time aside for planning and to allow time for fun. I think this is an important part of any relationship, regardless if it is FLR or not.
-Mz Kaylee
