If You Could....the details

As promised, below are how I categorized the responses in the summary grid in my last post.  There are some categories that were not on the summary grid in my last post simply becasuse there were only a few responses that fit into those categories and so it did not rank high enough to be on the grid.  At the bottom of the list, I have also noted misceallaneous responses that did not fit into categories.  The details are intrguing and provide specific ideas to incorporate into your FLR. 

Chores	Laundry, sweep house, clean bedroom, kitchen and bathroom, vacuum, does dishes, does chores without being told, does 99% of chores and errands, consistent and thorough with housework
Discipline and Spanking	Regular discipline sessions, maintenance spankings, whipping, spanked to tears, OTK position for 15-20 minutes; Mistress uses variety of instruments such as riding crop, wooden spoon, hairbrush, paddle and leather belt
Pampering/Massage	He bathes her, massages her, puts lotion on her, shaves and cleans her pussy; he gives her manicures, pedicures, foot rubs; increased knowledge and competence in massage
Punishment/held accountable	Punished when needed, punishment fits the crime, he is held accountable, he is questioned, punished with extra assignments, reprimanded, or curtailment of privileges; punishments generally should not be necessary, corporate punishment that is a deterrent, she brings out her inner "bitch" with punishments
Unconditional Obedience	Does what she wants immediately and without question; is her housewife
Loves and Respects Her	Is polite to me, respects me when I am with others, is loving and caring
Strictness and Control	Controls his TV watching, sex life, bedtime, clothes/underwear that he wears, conversations; she gives directives/does not request; she verbalizes exactly what she wants; she is more controlling, more strict, more open with her desires and expectations; she fingers his bottom with a "fuck me" dominant attitude; she exerts more power over him
Sex By Her Terms	Her rules and her priorities during sex, she takes complete control of sex, she decides when and how, sex whenever she wants and on her terms
Use of Rituals	Kneeling, foot worship, ritual of service (serving tea in bed), kneeling naked daily, daily rituals, ritual when wife returns home (greet her naked, kiss her, kneel, kiss feet, remove shoes)
oral sex for her/Face sitting	Required pussy worship every morning, endless oral sex, complete oral servitude, lots of oral sex
Orgasm Control	She completely controls his orgasms
More Teasing	More teasing and denial; a day of teasing for him, constant teasing by wife, more teasing and mind games
More sex/sex on demand/orgasms for her	More focus on her desires and less on his, she demand sex more often, sex on her terms, more orgasms for her
He recognizes obedience to her/ownership	Acknowledges FLR, that he obey and belongs to her, she is breadwinner and he is homemaker
Other Responses (not on summary grid):
Less Whining	No pestering about lack of orgasms, knowing when to shut up and listen
Deep Connection with her	She should probe into his heart and mind, know him fully, a connection with her where he is both awed and amazed by her and her lover for him and the thought of looking for sexual satisfaction elsewhere does not enter his mind; deep emotional connection not always seen in vanilla marriage
Public Play/Play with others	Engage with others in some way, participate with another/others as a submissive couple, be dominated in public (verbal, slap, dominant situations)
Training	Training protocols, training to do it right
Miscellaneous Responses by both men & Women	Forced cum eating, he is naked, cuckolding, she has final decision
Miscellaneous Responses by men only	Anal penetration by her, he worships her ass, forced bi, he is collared, he is marked, she wears male clothes, erotic humiliation, he acknowledges female supremacy and FLR, monthly review/assessment of FLR, sexualizing mundane tasks, she feels free to live as she desires, he is rewarded, she dresses dominantly/fetish wear, she is available 24/7 for nursing, she is firm with softness, sex slave/forced to do things for her, she is comfortable being pleased in ways other than intercourse, she values him, punishments are safe and come with care/discussion time afterward, she talks seductively
Miscellaneous Responses by Women only	Feminization, he is attentive to her needs and keeping her happy, treats her like a Goddess; he cooks for her, drives her around and takes care of car, does shopping; he is her sex toy, does everything with pleasure, drinks her piss; she control finances; he does spontaneous gestures such as hair brushing, cuddling, pedicures, doing extra (all) chores, doing chores for her friend