Mental Fun - Eternal Statements

I enjoy teasing Thomas with is eternal statements.  These are statements the remind him that his submission to me is never ending.  Some examples that I have used are:

1. You will never orgasm without my permission
2. You are never allowed on top (during sex).  Your proper position in life is beneath me
3. You will always be my slave
4. Starting now and lasting forever.....
5. This is your life now
6. You exist to serve me.

I will often whisper these things in his ear while I am teasing him.  Sometimes they are bold statements that I make when I am giving him orders, disciplining him, or reprimanding him.  Sometimes they are loving and teasing statements meant to drive his mind wild. For example, I may be teasing him and whisper, "It's so fun to tease you like this.  I love that you are my slave and can not orgasm without my permission. You will never have an orgasm without my permission slave."

I use item #2 often with many variations.  When I am on top of Thomas, either during sex or when I am queening him, I like to remind him that he is never allowed on top and I tell him how sexy and hot he looks beneath me.  On occasion, he will end up on top of me or will be moving in that direction and I will simply laugh and ask him what he thinks he's doing and remind him of his place.  I may order him off me or I may forcefully roll him over and get on top of him with my full weight.  This puts him in his place immediately (and I get a bit of a power rush from this). I have been guilty of baiting him into this situation just so I can roll him over and show my dominance.

I have teased him with the idea of never allowing him to have sex with me again.  His tongue and fingers can do wonders and is he even worthy of having sex with a Goddess? (I have asked him that question) lol. The idea of denying him this pleasure forever is exciting to me but I don't think it I could do without it.  As it stands now, intercourse is a special privilege for him and I only allow that privilege on occasion.  He knows that he is lucky when I allow it and that as a submissive it is very special when he is allowed to put his sex inside a Goddess.  Most of the time he pleasures me orally.  When we do have intercourse, I usually do not allow him to orgasm. On a rare occasion I will allow it.  He actually gets a "rush" out of being used like this, where I have an orgasm and he his denied during sex. Frankly I could do without the mess so I enjoy it to.  Although I do allow intercourse occasionally, it is fun to put the idea in his head that one day I may choose to deny him this privilege forever. 

When I get in these teasing moods, I will tease his cock and tell him how hot and excited I am but that he is not allowed to have sex with me. I will tell him that I know how bad he wants it. This drives him wild and usually gets him begging. Then I go in for the kill.  I will get on top of him and rub my sex all around his cock, teasing him but not letting him in.  This drives him insane (and me too!).  Ultimately I end up on his face, making him lick me to an orgasm while he is denied.  This is so much fun for both of us and it has a lingering effect on him for days afterward.

Thomas has admitted to me that when he is aroused and I say these types "eternal statements", it excites him even more and pushes him deeper into submission and maybe even subspace.  While some of it borders on fantasy, I truly believe these statements leave a lasting imprint on a submissive's mind and help keep them focused on serving and being obedient.  I encourage you to incorporate them into your relationship, even if it is just for fun.  Don't worry about having to stick to them.  You are the one in control so you can change your mind whenever you want (just don't make a regular habit of it or you will lose credibility).  Every once in rare moment I have allowed Thomas to be on top.  Sometimes the mood just strikes me.  Even thought this might happen, I still ingrain in his mind that he will never be allowed on top.  When it does happen, I might say something like, "well consider that a gift.  It won't happen again." or "You weren't supposed to be on top.  You'll be punished for that."

Saying these types of things over and over again have a lasting impact on you submissive's mind over time. I'm not suggesting using these daily or even weekly.  Too much is overkill and it becomes meaningless.  My recommendation is to incorporate them into your regular routines throughout the month.  For example, whenever you assign a new chore or task you could use #4.  If he tells you how great it is serving you, then you can respond with "That's great to hear.  This is how your life will always be, so I'm glad you enjoy it." Another option is to pick one and focus in on it for a week or two and then move on.  Then you can reinforce it every now and then in the future.

Trust me, these statements are loaded with a "punch" that imprints his mind.  He may not react immediately, but when he walks away after hearing one of these, it is still lingering in his mind and he is feeling your control wrap around him.   The more he hears statements like this, the more real they become for him.  Have fun with it.

Mz Kaylee