So I am going to have al little fun with this post. I was corresponding with someone about how we love to tease our guys and how they love it to. Through the discussion it occurred to me that teasing a man is a lot like petting a dog. Think about a dog. When you pet a dog, he is your best friend. His tail wags, he sits by your side and is happy. I swear my dog gets this look on his face like "oh yeah...that's good." There is nothing the dog cares about at that moment other than enjoying you petting him. Have you ever been to someone's house where you pet the dog and now the dog won't leave you alone. He will sit by your side as long as you pet him and if you stop petting him, he will look at you like, "I want more," and nudge you with his nose. If the dog knows you are someone that always pets him, he is going to come back for more and more.
Now translate that to teasing your man. When I am stroking Thomas's cock he is still and focused on nothing but the pleasure I am giving him. He could lay or stand by me all day while I stroke him. If I do a long steady tease with him, it actually relaxes him and is even hypnotic. If he had a tail, it would be wagging. He always wants more. When I stop and tell him to put it away, he gets this look of disappointment. Often times he even begs me for more. Such a cute doggie! Since I tease him almost daily, even if it is just for a minute or two, he is always on the lookout for a little tease. Sometimes I can tell he is hanging around me in hopes to get a little rub. If I do bite and give him a rub, he gets this wonderful look of satisfaction on his face. Like that little joy you get when biting into a delicious piece of chocolate.
And just like a dog, Thomas is so obedient for me. After a little rubbing, I could give him an order and he will follow. "Sit," "roll-over." Ha!-Ha!! No, it's more like "Run to the store and pick up milk," or "My car needs to be washed." He will run off happily and obey.
-Mz Kaylee
I hope not to offend anyone but................ as a former dog owner I agree the comparisons are there! I have "experimented" with this of late. When I have given a "quick list" (usually verbal) for some out of the house errands (usually grocery, pharmacy or hardware) I have called my husband in and given him a solid rubbing as I give the list. I will be "manually aggressive" when I emphasize certain things - i.e. "Make sure you get the cold items last"! Or "I don't want to see any non organic eggs"! Or whatever... He virtually runs out the door to do my bidding. (If a little awkwardly). I think the difference is between a husband who feels "nagged" and one who is happy to "retrieve".
ReplyDeleteI just want to say that this was a very interesting post. Us men are indeed happy to be our woman's retriever! :)
ReplyDeleteThere is also a parallel to training men and training dogs
ReplyDeleteAs demeaning as the comparison feels, it's not necessarily off base. However, our three dogs have it much better than I do. I'd trade places with any of them in a minute!
ReplyDeleteMy dog-lover wife has had me wag my tail *and* sit up and beg!
ReplyDeleteThere is a book called How To Make Your Man Behave in 21 Days or Less Using the Secrets of Professional Dog Trainers. It's tongue-in-cheek, but makes its point.
"No, it's more like "Run to the store and pick up milk," or "My car needs to be washed." He will run off happily and obey."
ReplyDeletePre-FLM, I griped about stuff like this or did it grudgingly. Now, I'm just like Thomas. I like myself a *lot* more, and she is so much happier. Which makes me happier and that much more eager to please. Which makes her happier. Etc etc!
I love all the comments. You guys are making me laugh. One thing a few of your comments touched on is that for men, doing tasks/chores becomes a little more fun or meaningful. Isn't it amazing how a change in perspective can give you a whole new outlook and attitude? It is a nice perk of FLR but also a good life lesson that can be applied in other areas of your life.
ReplyDeleteWe your readers haven't heard from you in a while, are you still doing this blog? Just curious :)
ReplyDeleteThis comment isn't really for publication, unless you want to, but just a topic suggestion. Another blogger wrote it's good for her husband to have a little fear of her. It would be interesting to know your thoughts and that of others on this topic. My wife doesn't punish me but I still have some fear of not being good and disappointing her. I think we'd be even closer if she did occasionally. For a newbie to femdom your blog has been so helpful. Femdom and our FLR relationship with all that you have blogged about, especially OC, has brought us great happiness and closeness. Thanks for your insights. pete
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