Goddess and Slave Weekends

It's been a busy few months for me.  What’s good  is that it is fun things like vacation, weekend
activities with friends and family, and running the kids to different activities.  Being out of the house
is great, but it does interrupt the normal routines.  One of them for me is writing this blog, which I am trying to get back into.  Another interruption is the intimate times with my husband. We have been
having lots of fun together but there has not been as much quiet and intimate time together and I miss that.  Something that we do in our relationship to help ensure that we spend quality time together and not get caught up in the every day life, is to plan Goddess weekends and Slave weekends.  I guess
you could say these are similar to planning date nights (we do that too) but these weekends are much more....intense than a date night.  I will elaborate below.

Goddess Weekends

The focus of these weekends is me because, yes, I am a Goddess.:)   On these weekends my
husband's sole purpose is to pamper me and treat me like a Goddess.  His mind set is of worshiping
me as a Goddess and my mindset is that of a Goddess or Princess who expects to be worshiped,
pampered, and served.  It is quite easy for me to slip into that mind set.:) Examples of things that he will do on Goddess weekends include buying me flowers, giving me a bath, shaving my legs, taking me to get my nails done, massages, brushing my hair, and running errands for me or with me. I've
thought about having him paint my nails or even doing some of my makeup but have not ventured
there yet.  I am not sure if I trust him with that.

Breakfast in bed is another favorite of mine.   In the evening we will usually go out to dinner together or plan some other fun activity with just the two of us. He is basically catering to my every whim (It
is so wonderful!).   On Goddess weekends, I do not spend much time at all teasing him unless I am in the mood.  An orgasm for him is not even a thought, although on a rare occasion it might happen.
However, he will spend a lot of time pleasuring me and giving me orgasms.

Something fun that I have him do every once in awhile is a body worship ritual.  He will be naked or in panties.  I dress in a short night gown or comfortable lingerie. He will start kneeling at my feet and I will order him to worship my foot.  He will kiss it and say "I love you," kiss it again and say "I
worship you," kiss it again and say "I obey you."  Then I will point to the other foot and he will
repeat this ritual.  I will have him do this all over my body.  I will adjust my night gown as needed to give him access to my body.  I may end up naked but I do find it fun and sexy to uncover and
recover my body parts with the night gown as he worships me.   He will kiss and repeat the words for the front and back of my legs, thighs, pussy, back, shoulders, ass cheeks, in between my ass cheeks,
and neck.  It’s also fun to make him worship my armpits.   About half way through I will change the words and make him say in between kisses "Your are my Goddess," "I am your slave," "I obey you."  It is a lot of fun when you get into it.  I will make sure he is hard the whole time, which does not take much encouragement at all.  If his cock/balls are within reach, I may hold them firmly while he
performs his worship and I will reaffirm his worship by saying things like "yes," "that's right," or
"good boy."  I may make him worship my ass several times, telling him how I know a slave like him
loves worshiping my Goddess ass.  I may order him to lick at times instead of kiss. We could easily
spend a 1/2 hour on this body ritual.  It is a lot of fun for both of us.

Goddess weekends are planned in advance.  Ideally it is a weekend where we have nothing else
planned.  However, with our busy schedules ,that may not be possible and so there are many times
where we work it around activities and events (which sometimes can add an element of fun). Our
kids are older so we are lucky enough that we can leave them alone and go out for a few hours. I let
him do all the planning for the weekend. Being the leader in the relationship does not mean you have to plan everything.  This is a time where I can sit back and just enjoy.  I do require him to write up his plans for the weekend in advance for my review.  I like to review it at least a day in advance while he is massaging my feet or kneeling before me.  Then I can give him my input or changes.  He is good at planning so most of the time I accept what he submits.  If there is a specific errand I need done, I will write it in.  I will also give direction on what he is to wear for the weekend - usually panties that
match mine and I may require him to wear a cock ring.  I've also tied a pretty pink ribbon around the base of his cock to remind him of his obedience to me.  The plan is always subject to change by me.  As the weekend progresses I may decide  to do something different and he just goes with it.

Goddess weekends are fun for both of us.  One may think that I am the one who gets all the benefit. It certainly is wonderful to be treated like a Goddess or Princess.  It is one of the best perks of being the leader in the relationship. I will not argue that.  However, there is also a thrill in it for the husband.
The submissive man is excited to serve his wife this way. To server her and treat her like a Goddess,
and be viewed as her servant, is a huge thrill for most submissive men. Trust me, they will love it.  I
know Thomas looks forward to these weekends.  When you think about it, the Goddess weekend
plays into the natural dynamics of the relationship between men and women.  It is not much different than when a man is courting a woman.  He will treat her like a queen and do everything possible to
impress her and win her over.  This happens all the time during dating and early in a relationship. 
Unfortunately for most people, as the relationship continues, the need to impress goes away and there are no more flowers, and less and less spontaneous activities to keep the relationship fresh.  I find that Goddess weekends help bring back that excitement and fun that you experience during dating.

Slave weekends are much different than Goddess weekends.  There is a whole different focus and
tone. I will write about slave weekends in my next blog.

-Mz Kaylee