Slave Weekends

In my last post, I discussed Goddess Weekends and introduced the concept of Slave Weekends.  In 

this post I will talk about Slave weekends and then sum it all up.  Enjoy!

Slave Weekends

Slave weekends have a much different tone than Goddess weekends.  The focus is more on him and 

not me.  He is still serving me and doing what I want, but the focus is on his submission and 

obedience to me and my control and authority over him.   I like to think of it as slave boot camp.  My tone and demeanor for the weekend is strict, commanding and authoritarian.  I don't ask him to do 

things, I tell him to do them.  During slave weekends we get a little kinky and cross over into the 

fantasy/role playing world a bit.  Much of what I reinforce with him is real but some of it is fantasy 

and mind games.  

Slave weekends are good for training.  If he is not doing chores properly or behaving in a manner that is meeting my expectations, I can spend time addressing those issues during the weekend. For 

example, once I was not satisfied with how he was putting my clothes away. He was very messy in 

how he folded them or hung them on hangers.  To correct this, I emptied out all my drawers and made him neatly fold and put everything away.  He was naked and I had a paddle in my hand to give him a spank every now and then when he was not neat enough.  I then had him empty his own drawers and refold everything.   This was all done in a strict but playful manner.   Another time I put a collar and 

leash on him.  I walked him around the house like a pet and did a house inspection with him.  I had 

his leash in one hand and a riding crop in the other.  If I liked how things looked, he got a nice pat 

and playful rub.  He received a swat or two for each thing that was out of place in the house and for 

areas that were not properly cleaned.  Let’s just say his ass was a little red by the time we were done.  His cock was hard too so I know he loved it.

On slave weekends, I will purposely be extra strict and demanding.  I will refer to him as slave, 

property, or my toy.  I may tease him about how he gets excited to wear panties and call him a girl, 

princess or slut.   This is all part of the fantasy and is done playfully.  Sometimes he is not allowed to speak all weekend unless I give him permission.  Once I took away his wallet, phone, and keys for 

the weekend so he could get the full effect of being my slave.  For dinner, I might have him kneel 

next to me while I eat and make him eat off a plate on the floor or we could go out for dinner with 

him wearing a butt plug and me doing all the ordering and paying for the check.  Again, this is a lot 

of fantasy play and done for the thrill.  

On slave weekends I will spend a lot of time playing with his cock and bringing him to the edge of 

orgasm.  I want to drive him crazy and turn his mind to mush because that brings out the submissive 

slave in him and sends him into subspace, where I can have lots of fun with him.  It is hypnotic when I stroke his cock and talk to him.  I like to whisper to him how excited I am that he is my slave and is obedient to me.  I love to paint a mental picture for him of his fate....that he will always be my slave 

or toy, or whatever I want him to be.  I will remind him that he will never ever orgasm again without my permission.  I may tease about things that could happen in the future such as never having an 

orgasm again or putting him in chastity or making him stay home 24/7 to be my servant.  This type of talk always drives him wild and pushes him into a deeper submissive state of mind.

I may have him do the body worship routine that I described for the Goddess Weekend but something else that is more fitting for slave weekend is a body inspection.  Instead of him worshiping me, I am 

inspecting him. Being inspected is a thrill for many submissive men.   I will have him stand naked.  

Often time I will even make him remove his wedding ring so that he is completely bare.  Then I 

inspect him like a piece of property.  This is where the fantasy play comes in.  I slowly circle him and trace my hands over his body.  My inspections are positive and not negative.  I will comment on how sexy his body parts are and order him to keep working out at the gym.  I may kiss his body or order 

him to bend over.  I will tell him that he is my property and I own him (he loves those words). I may kick his feet apart to make him stand wider.  I may have him hold his arms out to the side and when 

he starts to waver, order him to keep them up and straight. I will tell him to keep his eyes down and 

then later I will order him to stare straight ahead.  The point to all this is to create the dynamic that I 

am in control of him and he is to obey my every command without question and without hesitation.

I will inspect his balls to ensure they are bare and smooth for me.  If I am not satisfied he will get a 

little swat and be ordered to shave that night. I will tease his cock.  Sometimes I may squeeze out a 

bit of cum onto my fingers and make him lick or suck it off my fingers.  He will get a “good boy” for that.  The first time I read about feeding a man his own cum, I thought it was disgusting.  However, 

one time the mood struck me and I just did it. He was a bit surprised but did not resist. In fact, he 

seemed to get more aroused from it. It was a bit surreal for me and in the heat of the moment it was 

very exciting for me.  It’s hard to explain but I got real turned on from having him lick his own cum 

from my fingers.  It happens quite often now.  I’ve even spoon fed him before.  Very sexy!  

Something that I have discovered through all my reading is that many men actually fantasize about 

being forced to eat their own cum.  Who would have thought that?

During the inspection, I may put a collar on him.  It is fun and powerful to collar your man.  I will 

read the tag on the collar which says “Property of Kaylee.” Ankle and wrist cuffs could be added as 

well. I may make him step into a pair of panties or put a cock ring on him.  There are so many things that can be done.  You could inspect inside his ass with your fingers or a probe, cover his head with a hood (this makes him more like an object), or slip on gloves for the inspection.  You could trace a 

riding crop all over his body and give little slaps here and there.  I like to pinch his nipples hard and 

pull on them.  It feels powerful for me but also gives him a nice burst of pleasure.  Nipple clamps 

could also be used.

As I noted earlier, I like to have him naked for inspections.  However, one of our most memorable 

moments was when I had him dress femme for the inspection.  He put on panties, stockings, garter 

belt, and a bra. It’s very rare that I make his dress up like this (usually I just have him in panties) so 

he was already horned up just from getting ready.  When I inspected him in this state my comments 

were about how sexy his lingerie was.  I commented on how pretty, feminine, and sexy each item was as I traced my hand over the delicate fabrics.  Then I commented on how sexy and pretty he looked in the items…how sexy his legs were in stockings. I teased that if his legs were shaved, he would easily pass as a girl.  Then I hinted that maybe we would have to try that some time.  I probably would 

never make him shave his legs but it is fun to put that thought out there and let it linger in his mind as a possibility.  I did the same teasing about his cock, at how unsightly the bulge is with panties and 

that we would have to take care of that one day, maybe with a chastity device.  His cock was drippy 

so of course I had to wipe it up with my finger and bring it to his lips.  This time he got a “good girl” when he sucked on my finger.  I could not resist doing it a few more times and ordering ‘her’ to lick 

up the cum.

I also commented on how he dressed.  I pulled his panties up and told him that girls wear their panties nice and snug.  I did the same with his stockings and told him that he needed to make sure the seams were straight and the tops of the stockings were even.  I adjusted the garter straps, straightened his 

bra, all while making comments on the proper way for girls to dress.  When everything was straight 

and in order, I told him that’s how a princess should look and in the future I expected him to make 

sure he dressed properly for me.   All during the process, I used terms like princess, pretty, feminine, girl, soft, and sexy. This whole process really did a number on him. He was totally lost in subspace.  He dropped into a quiet, shy and passive mode.  It’s hard to describe but it was a real turn on for both of us.   This was all fantasy fun.  I have no desire to fully feminize Thomas.  It is just fun to role play it once in a while.

Sex during slave weekend is mostly him doing oral on me.  He is way too horned up for me to try 

regular sex. I’d have to stop every few seconds to keep him from cumming. Lol! I tend to be a little 

more aggressive with sex on these weekends.  I may order him to do certain things or physically force his head or hands towards my sexual areas.  I will queen him or have him kneel between my legs and squeeze my thighs around his head.     If I get in real dominant mode, I may push him away forcefully and then order him back between my legs.  Such fun!

Slave weekends are good time to try new kinky things. With all the fun, our inhibitions tend to run a bit freer than usual and so it becomes easier to explore new things and maybe even push limits a bit.  Thomas absolutely loves these weekends because they play right into his submissive fantasies.  I plan the slave weekend and whenever I announce one, his eyes light up with excitement. He is like a little kid.  Sometimes I announce them well in advance just to get him riled up and thinking about it for 

several weeks.  Slave weekends tend to overlap into the week.  It’s almost like we get a little high on 

it and we need a few days to slowly come down.   During the week after I will be a little more 

dominant than typical and Thomas will still be in a deeper submissive state. It is a nice side effect.

We plan Goddess and Slave weekends several times throughout the year. For those of you who are 

younger and have no kids, you may not need to do this because you have the time to spend together.  However, a common problem with couples when they get older and busier with life, is that they 

spend less quality time together. Planning these types of weekends helps keep the relationship fresh, 

exciting, and fun.  From the FLR perspective it helps reset and re-energize the FLR dynamic. Some 

of our best and most memorable moments are from Goddess and Slave weekends. 

I hope this gives you ideas that you can use in your own relationship. I would love to hear if others 

do similar things.

-Mz Kaylee