If you could have things any way you want in your FLR, what would be the top 5 - 10 things you would incorporate in your FLR? Please answer honestly without consideration of your current situation. In other words what is your ideal or fantasy FLR? I will be compiling responses so please keep your responses simple and to the point and 10 items or less. I do not want paragraphs of information or explanations of why you are listing each items. Just send me 5 - 10 things your would incorporate in your ideal FLR. It could be rules, routines, or even the ideal way your partner would act. For example, a few things I would list are:
- Nightly massages
- He does 100% chores
- He baths me
- Sex whenever I want and on my terms
- He sleeps naked.
- He responds immediately to my commands
Your list could be completely different and focused on different things. Certainly if you are a man, I would expect much different responses. The example above is just to show how simple and concise I need the information. If you wish to remain anonymous, then e-mail me your responses. I will not publish names/responses. My plan is to compile the information, share the results, and write a few overall observations on the results.
Thanks!!
1. My wife dressing the part when doing sexual things or even just when I'm doing chores for her.
ReplyDelete2. Copious amounts of facesitting. I find this act intensely erotic
3. Forced foot worship - massages, kissing, and her talking seductively and dominantly to me while I do this to her.
4. Real corporal punishment that would truly be a deterrent, where she can feel free to embrace her inner 'bitch' and let me have my well deserved punishment.
5. A connection to her where I'm both awed and amazed by her and her love for me that the thought of looking elsewhere for sexual satisfaction doesn't enter my mind.
good boy:)))))))))))
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ReplyDeleteThat sounds awesome! But shouldn't ALL relationships, vanilla too, have that?
DeleteThis comments was accidentally deleted. My apologies Kathy! Kathy's comments was "Love and Caring"
Delete1) Regular discipline sessions
ReplyDelete2) Rituals, such as: foot worship, kneeling
3) Giving directives, not making requests
4) Taking control of sex, including what happens and when
5) Taking complete control of the male orgasm
6) Being the final decision maker on all aspects of vanilla life
7) Punishing when needed and understanding that the "punishment fit the crime" is key to the punishment having the desired affect
8) Sexualizing mundane activities like chores
9) Verbalizing exactly what it is she wants and insisting he do the same
10) Monthly visits where both parties assess the FLR and what's working and what's not
hot!!!!!!!!!
DeleteI did not go into much explanations on these. I just listed. I could explain if helpful but for now I just did the list.
ReplyDelete1. His doing 99% of "chores and errands"
2. Me being the "decider" on most of our lives
3. "Telling" not "asking" for things to be done.
4. "Sex" being my decision and my control.
5. Exploring and deepening "his" girly side.
6. Deep emotional connection that I do not always see
in "vanilla" marriages.
7. Some outside marriage excitement for me.