I encourage
you to read it in full. To summarize,
the post is written by a dominant wife who needed a short break from
having to be in charge of her husband so she “parked” him. She did this by
tying him up and gagging him in a comfortable position and leaving him there
for a period of time.
I love the
concept! I don’t think you guys realize how much work goes into being in charge
and how needy you can be. I do absolutely love all the work, chores, and
pampering that my husband does for me but sometimes it is nice to have alone
quiet time. I may have to park my husband the next time he starts getting on my
nerves 😊.
The post
also got me thinking about other ways to park my husband. One thought is to confine him to a room for a
period of time. I know that one of the reader’s of this blog converted a small
bathroom into a “holding” room for her husband where he is “Stored” when
certain guests come over. If she sees this post, I hope she is willing to share
more about it in the comments section.
Another thought is to expel him from the house for the day. He can do
whatever he wants but he is not allowed to be home or to contact me. Ahh peace
and quiet for me! I think it is also
good for guys to have their own personal time away from the structured
environment so it’s really a win-win situation.
Please
share your thoughts on this idea and if you have done anything like it.
-Mz Kaylee
Ma’am,
ReplyDeleteMy wife has two variants on “parking me.” One is she will tell me to act like a servant until told otherwise. When she tells me that, it means that I am not supposed to be in the same room as her. If she wants to “play with me,” she will place me in a walk-in closet and tie my hands and feet. Sometimes, she will place me in the closet when she has friends over. To ensure that a nosy person does not find me, there is a “hook and eye” lock (like the kind you see on old screen doors) that I use to lock the door. After the event is over, she tells me to unlock myself. I get really submissive when she puts me in the closet.
Thank you for sharing. Both ideas sound like fun. Is there more to being a servant or is just you waiting until she allows you to be with her again?
ReplyDeletePutting your sub away is a great way to dominate him with very little effort. My wife would put me in a dog kennel in the basement when she wanted some alone time. It was very effective in putting me in my needed sub space with very little effort on her part. For the next hour...or three she would be able to partake in whatever endeavor she chose knowing I would not interfere, whilst all I could do was to lie there with absolutely no external stimulation.
ReplyDeleteIMHO to be "parked" or "put away" the husband needs to be placed somewhere with little or no stimulation, it needs to be quick and easy for the wife, and he should not be able to remove himself without assistance from his wife. Telling him to go out and enjoy himself would definitely not put him in sub space.
There is a huge psychological difference between being told to stay in a room and being locked in a room, and a much bigger difference being locked in a cage or kennel. The dichotomy of you enjoying yourself while sitting bored is also a very effective display of the power dynamics.
Thank you for taking the time to write this blog.
I have read where others have a cage or kennel is the house for the husband. I am glad you shared your experience with this and I can see how it would be a rush for the husband while also giving the wife a break. You said it perfectly- it has to be quick and easy for the wife.
DeleteIf a Female Led Relationship is first for the benefit of the woman, then it makes perfect sense to me that the woman would have time to herself when she needs or wants it, including relief from responsibility for supervising or directing the man. I would view giving her that time as part of my service and responsibility to her. One of my most submissive experiences was being bound hand a foot and left alone while my partner went about whatever she wanted to do for a while, and that could be on a bed, in a closet or basement or attic. Some men's fantasies include bondage and/or confinement, so "parking" him in that way could be satisfying for both of them. Service tasks are part of my fantasies, so I could imagine a period of time where I was instructed to complete a series of chores around the house without interrupting my Mistress, while she read a book or watched TV or visited with friends. The old adage about "being seen but not heard" comes to mind. Women in vanilla relationships often want their husbands away from the house and "out from underfoot," especially after the men have retired and are home most of the time. If she gives him permission to indulge a hobby or socialize with his friends, that would be a wonderful privilege for him as well, but she could also assign him a series of chores for him to complete away from the house without involvement from her, or work on a project outside or away from the house. She could tell him to go to the library and read for a specified amount of time, or until she tells him that he may return. He could have scheduled times to go help with some charity. She could have certain scheduled time each week for him to be gone so that she has the house to herself.
ReplyDeleteAll good ideas. Many of them I would consider typical activities of a WLM. What is different about "parking" is that there is no direction or thoughts needed from the wife. She simply puts him away until she is ready to reengage again.
DeleteMa'am,
ReplyDeleteAs to your question about “being a servant”, no, not really. My wife is a stay at home mom and to afford that I work some pretty long hours. Consequently, she doesn’t want me to spend all of my time doing chores.
I do more than most husbands, but not so much that it is obvious. What I do is focus on what she needs, so I get her a glass of wine, do some of her chores when she is behind or frazzled, rub her feet when she is watching a movie, etc…. .
She came upon that term from watching a show about English manor houses and how they were run. In the show, they made a point that when the gentry entered a room, the servants inconspicuously left the room. From that detail, she came upon that term.
I love that your wife is stay at home and the she still rules you. Those that think the one who earns the most money have all the power are so wrong! Your wife is a Queen to be served and you serve her by earning money for her. Well done!
ReplyDeleteI'm parked. My wife chains me up in our closet for as long as she wants some peace. We (I) have a stool to sit on and she fastens me to it with chains to my cuffs. She wants me to use my time well so she blindfolds me, gags me and puts hearing muffs on me so I don't have any distractions and i can sit and think about what I can do to be a better submissive and husband. When I'm released after 1-3 hours she wants to hear my ideas for improvement. I'm always interested to see what she was been up to while I was "away". It's a wonderful thing to be put away.
ReplyDeleteI would think a cage would be useful for this purpose.
Great example. What is it like for you when you are parked? Is it exciting, arousing, boring...
DeleteBeautiful post
ReplyDelete:)
DeleteSomething amazing of this post is it actually depicts a very normal activity where the Woman is clearly in charge, dominates and it's sweet as hell at the same time that it's all about the Woman's wishes.
ReplyDeleteA word of warning about the use of gags, which I read years ago. A woman said that once a week she invited a group of girlfriends around for the evening. To make sure her husband didn't disturb them, she usually kept him in the bedroom, tied hand and foot. One evening, after tying him up, she decided to gag him with a pair of her panties. Some time later she went back to the bedroom to check on him and saw that he was turning blue through lack of oxygen. After she removed the panties from his mouth he quickly recovered, but she decided that gagging him was too risky. She continued to put him in secure restraint when she had visitors, but without a gag.
ReplyDeleteunderpants
A good reminder of the importance of safety. I would think a properly fitted ball gag is a better choice than panties. Also it's a good idea to do a test run before trying something new that has potential risks. In the above example the wife could tie and gag the husband and remain in the same room for 1/2 hour as a trial run.
DeleteMy wife wants to insure that the spanking is not my only form of punishment. I must wear little boy pajamas, do housework, and this allows her to pamper herself, have friends over for tea, time to read a book. Don't ask about the comments I hear being seen in my pajamas, they know I'm spanked, but can't refuse to say something.
ReplyDeleteSorry for Google translation :
ReplyDeleteHe had to wait until Sunday morning to find out. Kneeling before me, hands behind his back, he received my instructions: his "default" place for the whole day on Sunday was on this stool. If I order him to do something, he does it. When it's over or I don't order him anything, he goes on that stool. As he is quickly stiff, I allow him to move, extend his legs, fold them up, whatever he wants, but with his buttocks on the stool. Absolute prohibition to leave it.
more explanations on
http://jedominemonmari.com/dimanche-de-represailles-de-domination-feminine/
in French
thanks for all your post
michel
Mz Kaylee,
ReplyDeleteI guess I'm parked but not frequently. I've been tied up (nothing put in my mouth) in a bed extra bedroom while she's entertained friends. She knows I don't like this and rarely does it. I've also been sent to my man cave in the basement wearing only my chastity cage so I can't have an unauthorized orgasm and allowed to watch TV using earphones, but ordered to keep completely quiet. I've never been left restrained alone in our house because of the chance of being trapped if there was an emergency.
My Queen parks me in bondage and tells me "I am putting you here, because I want you to be RIGHT HERE. I need ME time right now.". I am tied to something that doesn't move (bed, closet post, wall hook), so I know that I am put in my place. She may add a blindfold/hood or ball/bit gag to keep me silent. My Queen will go off and do her things and relax. She will check on me now and then to make sure her pet is healthy. When she checks on me, she reminds me that I am kept and that this is her place for me. She may do this up to 3-4 hours at a time. This might happen 2-3 times a month.
ReplyDeleteImportant Aspects:
1) Bondage and secured to something that doesn't move, so she knows I won't bother her
2) Quiet and dark, so I may think about her
3) Quick and immediate, so she can get onto her time away
My wife has “loaned” my chores and house keeping services out if she needs time or the house alone, and typically this has meant cleaning one of her single, girlfriend’s apartments or homes while entertaining them or going out with them for the day or evening. Her friends get a kick out of it but are genuinely appreciative too. My wife has explained it to me as sometimes women just need space and that although she loves me, there are instances where she simply cannot tolerate having a man around (even one literally at her feet). I will admit this is hard for me to stomach, given I not only do all of our housework but also - during these periods - also am tasked with her friends’ chores as well.
ReplyDeleteMy wife likes me parked but does not like to have to do anything to put me there. She loves to read and watch TV or play computer games and does not want me around. She will just tell me she needs her time. Once she says that I am to go and put myself into bondage (I love being hogtied on a floor) Once I get myself ready she will administer the handcuffs on my wrists and place a ballgag in my mouth adding the final touches (with minimal effort). She will then rub my penis and get me hard and say I want you to think of me and keep yourself hard. She teases me about my predicament and lounges comfortably for hours while I endure self imposed bondage for her. She will check on me and ask if I am ready to be released yet. Sometimes she will wait an hour or more before asking the first time making me suffer and struggle in my bondage. Once I am released I am allowed to pamper her by kissing and licking her feet and then I am allowed to message and moisturize them for her. Finally I will brush her hair. I am aroused by all of this clearly but never allowed an orgasm. She loves to deny me. I focus my thoughts on how best to serve her while I suffer for her...
ReplyDeleteI would like to be loaned to her friends to clean their houses and pamper them as well but I am not sure she is ready for that yet.
The whole idea of 'parking' one's husband just because a woman need some down time goes against my thoughts on the subject. If hubby is hanging around looking to 'serve his mistress' as far as I'm concerned, he obviously needs something to do and that's the woman's job - managing her hubby. I've prescribed chores for David that keep him busy from the time he gets up at 5:30 AM until he retires for the day, usually around 10:00 PM. David starts his day getting me breakfast and reviewing his plan for the day; soon after I leave for work he's off cleaning house for mom, my sister, or one of three of my girlfriends. Housekeeping takes 4-5 hours per assigned house. Afterward David returns to begin assigned chores at home. These includes shopping, cleaning, washing, ironing, and so on - all to my standards. David looks after my things when I get home - hanging my jacket, looking after my purse, shoes, bag, and so on. He serves dinner and we discuss his day, what he's accomplished, and what remains to be done. After dinner I make my way to the living room where David serves me a drink and gets on with his chores. By house rule from that point onward he 'speaks only when spoken to' and 'comes only when called'. I summon David by ringing a bell - my girlfriends love that my hubby comes running when one of them rings the bell! All this said I have as much or as little 'husband presence' as I want with minimal management on my part. He keeps busy and I relax. So, ladies, no reason to 'park' your man unproductively. Oh, and one more thought, I would NEVER let my man out of the house to do as he pleased, simply for some 'down time' for me. This is perhaps a subject for another post.
ReplyDelete-Debbiw
My Wife and I talked about "parking" this past Sunday while I was reading her some of your blog entire. There was one where you made a reference to this post. I didn't have it so I found it here. Sadly the link no longer works.
ReplyDeleteIF do try it. please share how it goes. It's a shame the blog was taken down. There were some interesting post on it.
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