Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to pause from the day-to-day activities, take a step back and appreciate the good things in life. For the dominant wife, it is an opportune time to show off your well-trained husband in front of your family and friends. This does not have to be done in an aggressive or overt way, although some of you may enjoy the public display of control. Actions speak louder than words. The well-trained husband will serve his wife and guests, with particular attention to the women, without being told. He will clean this house in preparation for guests, set the table, clean the table, and do the dishes. He will give special attention to the female guests, ensuring they have drinks, clearing away their trash, and complimenting them. When talking, he will show interest in them and not talk about himself. Guys, are you taking notes? Ask your wife today how you can help her for Thanksgiving. On Thanksgiving day be sure to be on your best behavior and an excellent servant, without being told. Be 100% focused on serving others and making their day better. Even if Thanksgiving is not at your house, you should jump in and help the host and keep your day focused on serving others and appreciating them. In doing all this, without being told, your service and dedication will be noticed and you will make your wife proud.
It also a time to be thankful for your wife and honor her. Be sure to thank her for everything she does for you, your children, and others. I challenge you to be genuine and sincere in your thanks and appreciation of her and not make it about your submission. I also challenge you to compliment her and show your appreciation of her in front of others.
In closing, I will share an inspirational lesson called "The Black Spot." Special thanks to WL Husband, who shared this in his comments in the "Topic Ideas" post.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9zv79fY4A4
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
-Mz Kaylee
Hi Kaylee!
ReplyDeleteThank you for a wonderful post. The holidays provide an opportunity for men to openly serve the women in their lives in very meaningful ways. The women certainly appreciate it and so do the men! David will be packing his aprons and serving tray in anticipation of his serving the ladies at our Thanksgiving celebration which takes place at my sister's this year. David loves serving the women, as do other men in the family. The guys try to out do each other with their service and attentiveness. For the men it's busy, busy, busy, all day. There's no watching football while the ladies cook! Rather, it's the other way around with the ladies relaxing while the men handle all the chores. It's a wonderful way for men to worship their wives
I love it when the ladies comment on how well I've trained David. And David loves it too, since compliments are not easily forthcoming from a group of women who are definitely in charge of their marriages.
Again, thanks for the wonderful post that I'm requiring David to read and discuss it with me prior to our going to my sisters. Have a very happy holiday!
Debbie
I need a strict Mistress like Debbie to train and discipline me. I want to learn how to properly serve women at home and at work. I want to meet their high standards of service every day.
DeleteThat sounds like a perfect Thanksgiving! Thank you for sharing Debbie. It is so special at how public and open your WLM is and that you have friends and family in the lifestyle. It's always fascinating to read about.
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving. I love your blog, it is a true gem. Thank you for what you do here.
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