How your day starts often sets the tone for the rest of your day. If you have a very positive experience in the morning, it can energize you and put you in a great mood for the rest of the day. Likewise, a bad experience can ruin your day and make you feel miserable. Most people tend to create morning routines to start the day, especially during the work week. This helps with getting to work on time, being productive, and not forgetting things. Some people, like me have the quick and easy routing of waking up at the same time every morning, getting dressed, drinking the first cup of coffee, eating breakfast, and heading out to work. Others will get up early and exercise or meditate, or just spend time relaxing before starting their day.
In the WLM, morning routines or rituals are a great way to focus the submissive husband on his purpose of serving the wife and are great for energizing and empowering the Goddess Wife. With many people still working form home as a result of the pandemic, now is a perfect time to create or enhance morning routines or rituals. As noted above, my routine is pretty straight forward and rigid. I do not work from home and I like my sleep so I've got my routine down to a science so that I can get up and out the door in less than an hour and half. This is partly possible because of my husband's morning routine. He works for home and so has some additional time in the morning. However, instead of sleeping in, he is required to get up when I do and have my coffee and breakfast ready and my work bag in the car, by the time I am dressed and ready to go. If it is cold out, he will start the car for me so that it warms up and if there is snow, he will clear it off for me. Part of his routine also involves emptying the dishwasher before he starts his work day. My husband also likes to exercise in the morning so he has to hustle to do everything for me and empty the dishwasher so that he has time to exercise and be ready for work.
I absolutely love coming downstairs and having everything ready to go and a warm car waiting. It is a wonderful way for me to start the day. For him, his first 30 - 40 minutes of the day are completely focused on doing things for me. I love that he is barefoot and in a nothing but a robe when doing all this. This morning routines is a daily reinforcement that his duty in our marriage is to serve me and it helps put him in submissive mode at the beginning of each day. It also make me feel special to have him serving me like that.
In the comments section of the Devotion post from last month, a few people have shared morning routines. I've shown their comments below. These examples incorporate ritual aspects such as kissing and reciting mantras. Formal daily rituals and mantras are excellent ways to keep the husband in submissive mode and focused on serving his wife during the day.
From sub hub:
Our morning rituals, aside from the expected retrieval of
her coffee and loving good morning kisses when first wakes, is assisting her in
getting into her panties. I stand before her and she is completely naked. She
chooses the panties she will wearing for the day, hands them to me and I kneel,
holding them open so she can easily insert each foot. I them tenderly pull them
and before putting them in them in their proper place, I kiss her vagina
several times, thank for being allowed to serve her, then pull them in place.
Then, that hug from my kneeling position gives me the "juice" I need
to begin my day.
Right after that, I start her car, gather the
things I have been told she needs to go with her, escort her to her car in the
garage, tell her I love her, and ask (required to every day) and if there are
any instructions for for the day. They could be anything to domestic chores, to
wearing panties or a plug, and now.
It's a beautiful way for us to start our day.
From Anonymous
Every morning after I drop off the kids, I come back to our
bedroom to do my devotion. This entails 2 primary acts in bed. The first is me
covering her pussy area with loving kisses. No insertion or licking is
involved. She lays in bed while my face is in between her legs. At her
prompting, she would turn around and then I would kiss her ass cheeks before
rimming her, which is my 2nd act. I caress her body while rimming her, and she
can feel my adoration. She decides when I should finish but usually the whole
process is about 5 min or less. We then hug with my head tucked below her neck
and I tell her how much I adore her, that I live to be owned and used by her,
that my only purpose is to worship her and to make her happy. Then we discuss
our plans for the day before I get out of bed and kneel by the bedside. She
sits on the side with her feet dangling and I take each foot and thoroughly
kiss the bottom of each foot and caress them on my face. I then hold her soles
against my chest and, while kneeling in front of her, recite: Thank you Goddess
for owning me and training me. I am grateful for the opportunity to be owned
and to serve you and to please you. That is my purpose in life. I promise to be
a good slave for you for the rest of my life and to obey and worship you at all
times so that I continue to have the privilege to kneel in front of you every
morning with your feet on my heart, to kiss the bottom of your feet, to adore
your pussy every morning, to be on-demand pussy worshipper whenever you wish,
and to rim your ass every morning to demonstrate my submission. I then put on
her sandals for her and then give her pussy a gentle kiss. She stands up and
turns around and I give her behind a final kiss.
Final Thoughts
I would enjoy hearing about other morning routines. Please share in the comments what routines or rituals you do in the morning and how do they make your feel/how do they help you start off the day right.
-Mz Kaylee
There's nothing remotely sexual in our morning routine, unfortunately! I wish there were.
ReplyDeleteWhat she really enjoys: I prepare a mug of hot tea for her.
That’s ok Calvin. I am glad you shared this. It does not need to be sexual. Our morning routine is not. If it makes her happy then it’s fantastic. You can also think about adding things to the routine and either just start doing them or ask your wife if you can do them. It was my husbands idea to bring my work bag out to the car every morning for me. I love that he offered to do it for me to make my morning easier.
DeleteThanks for the shout out Mz Kaylee. Can't wait to read this to Mistress K. on Sunday morning and let her know we are "famous". ha ha
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ReplyDeleteMy Queen every morning receives a massage from her slave while he is naked and collared. After finishing the massage i must kiss The Queen’s ass as a reminder of my position in our WLM. Then i bring her, her morning coffee, straighten and prepare her bathroom and then ask her what she would like for breakfast. This is prepared and brought to her in bed. When The Queen is finished with breakfast i clear and clean the dishes, straighten the kitchen and make the bed. Like Thomas I too am expected to put The Queen’s brief case in her car and then open the car door as she leaves for work.
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To some extent it depends on what I didn't manage to finish the night before. Whereas she sleeps until 7, I am usually up 2-3 hours before, and will work on making the kitchen spotless, finishing any ironing, cleaning floors or bathrooms, etc. When she wakes up she'll get ready on her own but while she's doing so I'll make her tea, but timing it so it's basically ready to hand to her the second she comes down the hall (this took a lot of practice on my part, getting that timing down). At this point she'll generally start work, as will I, but of late she's began to enjoy a 20-30 min foot rub while she starts with emails and/or morning zoom calls.
ReplyDeleteThanks Mz Kaylee. Honored that you have included my comments in one of your posts. This is Anonymous, the 2nd commenter. You are absolutely right that the morning ritual is to reset my mental state and, as my wife would say, a reminder to keep me in line for the day. It is a way of reinforcing her ownership over me and my submission and obedience to her. It has been critical in our relationship, especially when life gets busy.
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My morning routine for here (and me) is making breakfast ready, cleaning the kitchentable and then i go to the sleeping room and have to wake here up very slowly with a lot of kisses and cuddling. Second best time of the day. ( the best time is the teasing before going to sleep :-))
When we are not together in the morning, i have the order to send her a picture of me kneeling. Every day. So every day starts with a submissive routine witch brings me in the sub mode and reminds me how lucky i am to have a GF who is demanding that. This routine gives me security and her hopfully a reminder that i am still in place. I love that time of the day when she is sleeping and i am preparing the breakfast quietly and allready thinking of her.
I am very lucky that my wife works from home so I am never away from her. I am also VERY lucky that I am allowed to dress her in the morning. Before she has her shower she will let me know what she wants to wear or will tell me that I can decide. I then lay out her clothes and wait in the bedroom in my worship position. That means toes, knees, forehead and elbows on the floor with my hands outstretched, cupped and raised and holding her neatly folded knickers for her. I stay like this until I am told to get up and kneel in front of her. This can be ten minutes or it can be an hour depending on what she does. Sometimes she will do her make up after being dressed, sometimes before. On the weekend she may go and read the newspaper in her bathrobe and lounge about before getting dressed. Once I was waiting for over three hours! The sense of anticipation when she enters the bedroom is very powerful and I get tingles all over. I'm very good at getting her dressed. My favourite part is putting her tights on and when she lowers her breasts into the bra I am holding for her. I make my way around her to do up the bra clasps and return to kneel in front of her. It is at this point that I am allowed to kiss her feet, her knickers and her boobies before finishing dressing her. This also includes putting on her watch and the jewellery she has chosen. One final hug around her waist and I am invited to stand up for the first time. We make breakfast together and then get on with our day. I love this ritual. Some days she will just want to do it all herself so it isn't every day, only most days. My other ritual which I sometimes don't enjoy as much is my weekly review on a Monday morning. That's because I occasionally get my bottom smacked!
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My hubby has a set rule of devotion and ritual which he does every morning.
ReplyDeleteHe waits for me to wake up and sit on the bed and indicate he may start.
He first kisses my forehead and then worships my ears and nostrils with his tongue inside. He then opens his mouth and waits to taste my spit on his tongue.
I then lift each arm and he gently kisses and licks my pits. He kneels while I rise and proceeds to lick and kiss my belly button and vagina and upon my turning he tongues my asshole. He has to keep his tongue up my bum, till I tell him to stop.
I then sit down and allow him to kiss and lick my toes and sole. He follows up my protesting and reciting a small verse pledging his devotion and obedience.
I then start my day by gently putting my feet on his head and bid him to rise.
The whole ritual takes about ten minutes, as he knows not to hurry.
Our marriage rules are well established. I rarely have to use corporal punishment.
Some may think us weird, but for my husband it lends clarity and purpose to his role in our life.
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Asha
I am enjoying reading all these wonderful morning rituals and routines. I hope more of you share. Many have written about body worship rituals and reciting mantras. Do you do these every day? If yes, do you find it difficult to find time every morning? For the guys, do you ever feel the mantra loses meaning over time?
ReplyDeleteMy Goddess allowed me to read her description of my morning ritual. I think she meant prostrating instead of protesting, at her feet. I will never dare to protest at her! Her cane hangs at our bedroom door as a warning.
ReplyDeleteIt took me time, helped by Goddess and her trusty cane to master ( sorry ) perfect my morning ritual. Now I feel a sublime bliss and peace when I worship her every morning. I am proud to say that my verse extolling her and pledging myself to her was composed by me.
If She permits, only then can I share it with others.
My morning prayer helps me remember my place and duty in our life. I never tire of reciting it as I know very well the consequences of falling short in my worship of my Goddess.
Respectfully yours
Slave of Goddess Natasha
Ps I am sending this from Her email as I only correspond with and under her watch.
A very important correction to your original post :). Thank you for sharing and for responding to my question about reciting mantras.
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