Last weekend Thomas and I had a fabulous spontaneous moment. It was a rare occurrence that both our kids were unexpectedly out of the house and Thomas was not in the middle of doing something and I was not busy with something. We both had things to do that day but at the moment we were both free. He joked at how we should take advantage of the moment. I'm pretty sure he did not expect me to follow him to the bedroom. In the bedroom, I sprawled out on the bed. Suddenly I wanted him bad. I know he wanted me because he always does. That is part of the fun of keeping him horney all of the time.
He joined me on the bed and it did not take long for him to get me naked. His clothes came of quickly after mine. I enjoyed having him ravish my body and soon he was on top of me. It is rare that he is in this position. I am always on top when we have sex. I like it that way and with that position there is the obvious power exchange of having him beneath me. Usually by now I would order him off of me or I would forcefully roll him over onto his back. However, this time I did nothing. The past few months have been so busy with work and other things that Thomas and I have not had a lot of time for fun. I was enjoying the moment and did not want to take charge. I enjoyed having my husband make love to me. He made me feel incredible. There was no orgasm for him - that would have been too nice :).
So I made an exception to the rule; I allowed him to be on top during sex. I can do that because I am the one in charge. I make the rules and I can break the rules. It was a very rare moment for him and for me and it was fantastic. Sometimes exceptions to the rules are good.
-MzKaylee
Exceptions to the rules help keep us on our toes!
ReplyDeleteAn orgasm-denied husband will always be ready to properly service his Wife-Mistress, since he will not be depleted. The challenge is for him to be well trained not to ever ejaculate without her permission. May I ask how long such male training normally takes? ---pete
ReplyDeleteIn the past I would have an accident and a ruined orgasm...I would always ask for one more rub after she told me to stop, and that is when the accident would happen.
DeleteNow I stop when she tells me, and no more accidents.
I confess I practice the "very few and far between" approach to my husbands orgasms. For us it works. In fact 95% of his sex is him giving me oral. He does not receive oral....ever. It is the single thing I think that changed our dynamic the most. He does not get a lot of sex. He is "in waiting" most of the time. I have noticed that he can sometimes orgasm (which I am not happy about usually but it is hard to prevent) by giving me oral.
ReplyDeleteI don't think my dominant wife should give blow jobs to her submissive husband, and she agrees.
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