In my last post, I discussed Goddess Weekends and introduced the concept of Slave Weekends. In
this post I will talk about Slave weekends and then sum it all up. Enjoy!
Slave Weekends
Slave weekends have a much different tone than Goddess weekends. The focus is more on him and
not me. He is still serving me and doing what I want,
but the focus is on his submission and
obedience to me and my control and
authority over him. I like to think of
it as slave boot camp. My tone and
demeanor for the weekend is strict, commanding and authoritarian. I don't ask him to do
things, I tell him to
do them. During slave weekends we get a
little kinky and cross over into the
fantasy/role playing world a bit. Much of what I reinforce with him is real but
some of it is fantasy
and mind games.
Slave weekends are good for training.
If he is not doing chores properly or behaving in a manner that is
meeting my expectations, I can spend time addressing those issues during the
weekend. For
example, once I was not satisfied with how he was putting my
clothes away. He was very messy in
how he folded them or hung them on
hangers. To correct this, I emptied out
all my drawers and made him neatly fold and put everything away. He was naked and I had a paddle in my hand to
give him a spank every now and then when he was not neat enough. I then had him empty his own drawers and
refold everything. This was all done in
a strict but playful manner. Another time I put a collar and
leash on
him. I walked him around the house like
a pet and did a house inspection with him.
I had
his leash in one hand and a riding crop in the other. If I liked how things looked, he got a nice
pat
and playful rub. He received a swat
or two for each thing that was out of place in the house and for
areas that
were not properly cleaned. Let’s just
say his ass was a little red by the time we were done. His cock was hard too so I know he loved it.
On slave weekends, I will purposely be extra strict and demanding. I will refer to him as slave,
property, or my
toy. I may tease him about how he gets
excited to wear panties and call him a girl,
princess or slut. This is all part of the fantasy and is done
playfully. Sometimes he is not allowed
to speak all weekend unless I give him permission. Once I took away his wallet, phone, and keys
for
the weekend so he could get the full effect of being my slave. For dinner, I might have him kneel
next to me
while I eat and make him eat off a plate on the floor or we could go out for
dinner with
him wearing a butt plug and me doing all the ordering and paying
for the check. Again, this is a lot
of
fantasy play and done for the thrill.
On slave weekends I will spend a lot of time playing with his cock and
bringing him to the edge of
orgasm. I
want to drive him crazy and turn his mind to mush because that brings out the
submissive
slave in him and sends him into subspace, where I can have lots of
fun with him. It is hypnotic when I
stroke his cock and talk to him. I like
to whisper to him how excited I am that he is my slave and is obedient to me. I love to paint a mental picture for him of
his fate....that he will always be my slave
or toy, or whatever I want him to
be. I will remind him that he will never
ever orgasm again without my permission.
I may tease about things that could happen in the future such as never
having an
orgasm again or putting him in chastity or making him stay home 24/7
to be my servant. This type of talk
always drives him wild and pushes him into a deeper submissive state of mind.
I may have him do the body worship routine that I described for the
Goddess Weekend but something else that is more fitting for slave weekend is a
body inspection. Instead of him worshiping
me, I am
inspecting him. Being inspected is a thrill for many submissive
men. I will have him stand naked.
Often time I will even make him remove his
wedding ring so that he is completely bare.
Then I
inspect him like a piece of property. This is where the fantasy play comes in. I slowly circle him and trace my hands over
his body. My inspections are positive
and not negative. I will comment on how
sexy his body parts are and order him to keep working out at the gym. I may kiss his body or order
him to bend over. I will tell him that he is my property and I
own him (he loves those words). I may kick his feet apart to make him stand wider. I may have him hold his arms out to the side
and when
he starts to waver, order him to keep them up and straight. I will
tell him to keep his eyes down and
then later I will order him to stare
straight ahead. The point to all this is
to create the dynamic that I
am in control of him and he is to obey my every
command without question and without hesitation.
I will inspect his balls to
ensure they are bare and smooth for me.
If I am not satisfied he will get a
little swat and be ordered to shave
that night. I will tease his cock.
Sometimes I may squeeze out a
bit of cum onto my fingers and make him
lick or suck it off my fingers. He will
get a “good boy” for that. The first
time I read about feeding a man his own cum, I thought it was disgusting. However,
one time the mood struck me and I
just did it. He was a bit surprised but did not resist. In fact, he
seemed to
get more aroused from it. It was a bit surreal for me and in the heat of the
moment it was
very exciting for me. It’s
hard to explain but I got real turned on from having him lick his own cum
from
my fingers. It happens quite often
now. I’ve even spoon fed him
before. Very sexy!
Something that I have discovered through all my reading is that many men actually fantasize about
being forced to eat their own cum. Who would have thought that?
During the inspection, I may put a collar on him. It is fun and powerful to collar your
man. I will
read the tag on the collar
which says “Property of Kaylee.” Ankle and wrist cuffs could be added as
well.
I may make him step into a pair of panties or put a cock ring on him. There are so many things that can be done. You could inspect inside his ass with your
fingers or a probe, cover his head with a hood (this makes him more like an object), or
slip on gloves for the inspection. You
could trace a
riding crop all over his body and give little slaps here and
there. I like to pinch his nipples hard
and
pull on them. It feels powerful for
me but also gives him a nice burst of pleasure.
Nipple clamps
could also be used.
As I noted earlier, I like to have him naked for inspections. However, one of our most memorable
moments
was when I had him dress femme for the inspection. He put on panties, stockings, garter
belt,
and a bra. It’s very rare that I make his dress up like this (usually I just
have him in panties) so
he was already horned up just from getting ready. When I inspected him in this state my
comments
were about how sexy his lingerie was.
I commented on how pretty, feminine, and sexy each item was as I traced
my hand over the delicate fabrics. Then
I commented on how sexy and pretty he looked in the items…how sexy his legs
were in stockings. I teased that if his legs were shaved, he would easily pass
as a girl. Then I hinted that maybe we
would have to try that some time. I
probably would
never make him shave his legs but it is fun to put that thought
out there and let it linger in his mind as a possibility. I did the same teasing about his cock, at how
unsightly the bulge is with panties and
that we would have to take care of that
one day, maybe with a chastity device.
His cock was drippy
so of course I had to wipe it up with my finger and
bring it to his lips. This time he got a
“good girl” when he sucked on my finger. I
could not resist doing it a few more times and ordering ‘her’ to lick
up the
cum.
I also commented on how he dressed.
I pulled his panties up and told him that girls wear their panties nice
and snug. I did the same with his
stockings and told him that he needed to make sure the seams were straight and
the tops of the stockings were even. I
adjusted the garter straps, straightened his
bra, all while making comments on
the proper way for girls to dress. When
everything was straight
and in order, I told him that’s how a princess should
look and in the future I expected him to make
sure he dressed properly for me. All during the process, I used terms like
princess, pretty, feminine, girl, soft, and sexy. This whole process really did
a number on him. He was totally lost in subspace. He dropped into a quiet, shy and passive
mode. It’s hard to describe but it was a
real turn on for both of us. This was
all fantasy fun. I have no desire to
fully feminize Thomas. It is just fun to
role play it once in a while.
Sex during slave weekend is mostly him doing oral on me. He is way too horned up for me to try
regular
sex. I’d have to stop every few seconds to keep him from cumming. Lol! I tend
to be a little
more aggressive with sex on these weekends. I may
order him to do certain things or physically force his head or hands towards my
sexual areas. I will queen him or have
him kneel between my legs and squeeze my thighs around his head. If I
get in real dominant mode, I may push him away forcefully and then order him
back between my legs. Such fun!
Slave weekends are good time to try new kinky things. With all the fun,
our inhibitions tend to run a bit freer than usual and so it becomes easier to
explore new things and maybe even push limits a bit. Thomas absolutely loves these weekends
because they play right into his submissive fantasies. I plan the slave weekend and whenever I
announce one, his eyes light up with excitement. He is like a little kid. Sometimes I announce them well in advance just
to get him riled up and thinking about it for
several weeks. Slave weekends tend to overlap into the
week. It’s almost like we get a little
high on
it and we need a few days to slowly come down. During
the week after I will be a little more
dominant than typical and Thomas will
still be in a deeper submissive state. It is a nice side effect.
We plan Goddess and Slave weekends several times throughout the year.
For those of you who are
younger and have no kids, you may not need to do this
because you have the time to spend together.
However, a common problem with couples when they get older and busier
with life, is that they
spend less quality time together. Planning these types
of weekends helps keep the relationship fresh,
exciting, and fun. From the FLR perspective it helps reset and
re-energize the FLR dynamic. Some
of our best and most memorable moments are
from Goddess and Slave weekends.
I hope this gives you ideas that you can use in your own relationship. I would love to hear if others
do similar things.
-Mz Kaylee
