It's a regular question that he asks and my normal answer is 'yes.' This time, he was a bit taken about with my response. I responded, "No, you are not going to Lowe's now."
I said nothing more and he looked at me a little confused and finally asked, "is there something you need me to do for you?"
My response, "I just want you around the house now. I have a few things for you to do later. You will go to Lowe's when I say you can go to Lowe's."
In a quieter, feeble tone he responded, "Yes Goddess."
He got the message. I was exerting my control over him and it was my decision as to when he would go to Lowe's. His projects for the day would have to wait.
For the rest of the day his demeanor was more submissive and attentive to my needs. I think deep down he liked that I did this I had nothing pressing for him to do. I just wanted to exert my power. It’s good to do that every now and then to remind them whose in charge. It’s also a good test to see how they respond. Any resistance, talk back, or even negative body language should be met with discipline or punishment. A good submissive always pleasantly obeys.
-Mz Kaylee
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I do like being told no randomly.
ReplyDeleteAfter giving my wife oral and her getting a few orgasms, she typically likes penetration. I always ask permission or if she desires penetration after giving oral. This one time,I was extremely hard and ready to proceed. But her reply was a casual, "no, not tonight." She saw my dick at full attention and even said with satisfaction, " looks like you're ready". I said, "I'll do as you wish." As she felt it for a second, she smiled and said "goodnight".
I had to turn,walk away, erect,as she turned over to sleep. I was very humbled, and fulfilled surprisingly. It was a good night.
Mike you described a typical night for he expect my hard dick gets barely a glance now and I'm sent to the end of the bed to rub her feet for 20 or so minutes and then made to sleep in another room.
DeleteThat is right boys. Keep those erections going. I love to tease my husband to the brink of orgasm and then send him to bed with a hard dick. So much fun!
DeleteI think my wife enjoys seeing my erections but that's about it. It's very humbling as I used to view it as the one thing she at least occasionally *needed*. But she's all but confirmed she orgasms better off either oral or a vibrator.
DeleteThat's famous, yes, perfect. Great truth.
ReplyDeleteCommand only for caprice of lady, it is so sexy...
My Kaylee,
ReplyDeleteMy wife (Owner) has introduced a powerful variation on the theme that she seems to pull out randomly, which is amazing for both of us. When shopping I sometime pick thing up in the grocery store and add them to our cart, usually junk food. My wife sees me doing this, but doesn't say anything (until). Until we get to the checkout and as the item is scanned she will say. Did you "Ask for permission to purchase these"? And then wait's for my answer. Usually while a stunned cashier holds the item and smirks. Sometimes, she will even have me put the item back.
So Good and Bad all at the same time...
robby.
What a great move by your wife A great way to publicly put you in place but without being too over the top.
DeleteThe first time I was told "no" and had to pull out without coming is probably one of the most frustrating yet thrilling moments of my life. The first time I was told "no" outside of the bedroom was the point I knew our WLM was really happening. Great discussion.-Alan
ReplyDeleteOh, this is great Mz Kaylee! i'm sure the submissive effect on him lasted a long time!
ReplyDeleteAdding to leaving us with erections, my Queen does something beautiful to me: She uses the power of Her eyes.
Long ago, i started asking permission to cum, and She would normally say 'yes' and normally we'd look for each other's eyes to connect in this moment. i felt Her eyes intensity on me, demanding me to empty myself for Her.
So later, as She left me with an erection and before turning to sleep, She'd grab my face and look me at my eyes with a loving dominance. Instead of demanding me to empty, She'd connect and say "calm down, it's okay this way, you'll be fine". That made me feel Hers at a whole another level and conditioned me to submit to Her sight.
Finally, now that we are in an extended abstinence of PIV, She uses the same technique outside of the bed. A couple of months ago as i was lazy i felt Her confronting me and looking me at the eyes. In our morning routine (while i kneel) She sometimes uses it. During the day i have some vows and it's rather frequent that She does look at me at the eyes in that same way.
I do think the eyes are a window to our soul and i believe my Queen has the ability to see my submission from the inside, and if She doesn't see it She uses words to get me into the right state.
Very intense and powerful Khorina. Agree that the eyes are a window into our soul and I think a lot of deep bonding occurs when you gaze into one's eyes.
DeleteI don’t see how that was constructive for either of you unless you just wanted to see if he would obey you. But you should already know that.
ReplyDeleteFrank, it was a show of my control over him; a reminder that I am paying attention to him and that I do have authority over him. Doing little things like that keep him in a submissive and obedient state of mind and prevent him from getting too "comfortable." Also, for me, there is some fun for me in exerting my power every now ant then just because I can.
ReplyDeleteThank you for explaining it to me, Mz. Kaylee. I understand now you are training your submissive to always be obedient. I know it is easy for me to fall back into bad habits. Women are more disciplined than men, in general.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this blog post Mz Kaylee. I bookmarked it, and showed it to my wife. I think more of this would be beneficial for me. It would help reinforce who gives the directions in our marriage.
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