Here is a no-brainier about a Femdom Wife led marriage (by Dorinda)

Below is a post from Dorinda, from her blog "A Femdom Wife's Life."  Thanks Dorinda for sharing this. For those interested in reading more from her blog, I have added it to the reading list.  

-Mz Kaylee

Besides many other benefits like financial security, no arguments, a partner that does 100 percent of the joint choirs and duties, etc. is the sex.

Since my last post I have received a mountain of e-mail regarding oral sex, the receiving of it as a woman.

I know my sex drive has tripled and maybe even more then that since taking control of my husband.

I believe it’s because as a normal woman your husband wants sex, you think OK, I love him so no problem. He tries if you’re lucky, to get you horny enough to get wet, then when he is through you may not have had your relief, he is done and unless you get out your vibrator you don’t get your needs met. I know this is a simplified version but very true to the point for many Women.

Now as a FemDom wife, You tell him you are ready for his service, he provides it for you, no worries if your clean or dirty down there, and you get all your needs met. Because you can relax and take your time knowing when you are finished with him you’re done, no worrying about his needs.

I know these two examples are true because of 24 e-mails the last 2 days on the topic as well as my own personal experience.

Also, many men that have commented and/or e-mailed me have talked about being caged or want to be so their Wife can control their releases. These men are for sure in it knowing no way do they orgasm without Wife’s permission, She has the key.

My husband is not caged but can and does follow my exact orders and knows there is no release after the service unless I say so. Power for me and it keeps him interested hoping for that male driven release he craves so much..

Anyway, my desires for sex and orgasm’s have increased because Its all for my pleasure, no work from me, no let downs. So now if I am even a little horny I have him take care of me, It takes a little longer then but a good sub will provide what it takes for you to orgasm one or in my case many times.

One last thing, I have concluded that many marriages in my age group are set up like this D/s model for the Wife. I think we learn together over time and the husband accepts his place under you much easier than a young man can.