- On Sunday I woke up and a hot cup of coffee was waiting for me, made just the way I like it. That is an every day occurrence for me.
- I relaxed most of the day and watched TV while hubby did all his chores- laundry, vacuum, clean bathrooms, etc.
- I had a few errands to do and he was my personal chauffeur. It's nice to not have to worry about driving.
- In the afternoon I cooked and baked. I do not delegate these activities because I enjoy them. However, the mess I make and all the dirty dishes are cleaned up by hubby. Baking is much more enjoyable when I don't have to clean up.
- He fills my car with gas and withdraws cash from the ATM for me for the week. I love that this happens every week without me telling him to do it.
- I tell him to get something out of my car for me. He jumps to it immediately without question.
- In the evening he showers and shaves (both face and balls) in preparation for our night routine. It's nice to have a smooth clean man in bed.
- Before bed he bathes me and massages me. After my massage I allow him to pleasure me. He gives me a fantastic orgasm without expecting one in return.
- After my orgasm, I send him to kneel naked in the corner. He has been good the past week so it is not a punishment but instead it serves as a reminder of his position in our marriage.
- I drift to sleep while he kneels in the corner and reflects on his submission to me. Before he goes to bed he will let the dog out, lock up the house for the night and turn off all lights.
Submissive men are great! If you don't have one you are missing out big time!
-MzKaylee
And he loves to do it all for you,
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A good reminder that all of these relationships look a little different: My wife loves to drive (it feels like being "in charge" to be in the literal driver's seat!), but isn't a fan of cooking and would happily keep me working in the kitchen for the rest of my life if she could.
ReplyDeleteYou definitely share the enjoyment of coffee in common. My wife loves bragging to her friends about how I've made her coffee first thing every morning for our entire marriage.
Why is it Femdom is so oriented to orgasm denial? Who CARES if your hubby has an orgasm right after you? If e's a good boy, WHY do you deny him??? Evil!
ReplyDeleteThe short answer is that it demonstrates my control and power over him and for him, it is an act of submission and obedience. Most men who experience consistent orgasm control find that it is a thrilling experience that is far more exciting than the orgasm itself. Orgasm Contral and Denial is a complex dynamic that can not be explained in a few sentences so the short answer does not do it justice. I've have written about it in the past. Here is one post on the topic:
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evanho - Thanks for sharing your personal experience. A great example of that there is not a once size fits all approach and that what works for one couple may not work for another couple. It's all about shaping your relationship in the way that works best for the couple.
ReplyDeleteHi Mz Kaylee, thanks for sharing, as you have so generous done so since 2014. In reference to your orgasm before sleep, is it done every night? If so, how do you fit it in every night? And also if you dont mind, what is your approx age to have such strong libido? thx
ReplyDeleteNo, not every night. He wishes! 1X a week is typical. Sometimes it's more and sometimes it's less.
DeleteAs noted above there is variation in each relationship FLR or vanilla. Ours has much in common with Mz Kaylee although not quite 5 years old. The morning coffee yes, the kneeling happens for me when I say my pledge of obedience as she’s sipping. Yes I chauffeur, she cooks and I clean. And as wonderful as it is for her I am as happy and in love as I can be. Mz Kaylee, your creativity and understanding are inspirational and life changing. Thank you.
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ReplyDeleteI love you and love your blog, thanks for the beautiful post.
ReplyDeleteLovely, Mz Kaylee. While I do more or less everything that you listed (we don't have a dog, lol), I don't do them every day, my Wife simply doesn't demand it and then I slack. I guess I have plenty of room for improvement, but I know that our FLR is still evolving and the direction in which we are moving is clear and fully in my Wife's hands, I no longer provide the input, I am happy to follow the new rules as they come, even when I don't like them, like having to ask for permission every time I want to hang out with my friends, especially lady friends, or when I am punished by grounding or by being given s curefew.
ReplyDeleteHowever, there are a few things I am expected to do every day or at least very often, and to high standards: handwashing my Wife's bras, the delicate panties and Her pantyhoses/stockings, cleaning and polishing Her shoes, making sure that the kitchen sink is empty and clean in the evening, cleaning the toilet, gas tank must never be empty, monthly bills must be paid etc. And the regular personal services include shaving Her legs and the intimate areas, full pedicure and massages (especially foot massage). Sex is completely under my Wife's control, I only have orgasms when She allows it and in the way She allows it, almost never from fucking anymore. I was given three orgasms in November (none from vaginal sex) and none in December so far.
Tom- It's normal for guys to slack every now and then. That's why regular discipline and rewards are an important part of WLM. It's also tiring and not fun for us to always be demanding things so I think it’s unrealistic to expect that. When you know the expectations, you should just do them without being asked. That's what makes me happy! Of course, I know part of the thrill for you guys is being told what to do. The challenge is finding the right balance in the relationship between being told what to do and doing things on your own out of obedience.
DeleteTo sum it up, what I am saying is that what you are describing is not out of the ordinary for a WLM. It sounds like your wife are progressing well in your WLM. I hope to hear more from you as your relationship grows.
Thank you for replying Mz Kaylee.
DeleteI don't slack on the services I am expected to do regularly. OK, sometimes I may honestly forget or miss something. When this happens my Wife reprimends me and usually there is some punishment. Just the other day I thought one pair of Her boots didn't require cleaning and I cleaned and polished another pair and a pair of shoes that were clearly dirty. My Wife is strict about Her shoes and as a punishment for missing one pair I had to clean our daughter's shoes as well the next night (without her knowledge). These are the tasks that I know my Wife expects and wants to be done by me, period. And I do them even when I don't feel like it.
But then there are many chores or services that my Wife never indicated as those that I am expected to do regularly. She also doesn't discipline or reprimend me if I don't do them. So sometimes I do them on my own or if She orders me. When I feel lazy I certainly don't do them. This is what I meant by slacking. This certainly doesn't happen with chores I know I am expected to do, it would be downright rude to slack on those and my Wife wouldn't tollerate it anyway.
Thanks all for the continued comments. I enjoy reading your different experiences and it's helpful for others to hear what other people are doing.
ReplyDeleteModel behavior for a well trained husband.
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