What things do you like the most about your Wife Led Marriage (WLM)/Female Led Relationship (FLR)?

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No chores for me, no arguing from him, I give him an order and he responds immediately, no putting gas in my car, hot coffee served to me every morning, and I get to orgasm whenever I want....We have also grown very close together as a result of the WLM. We communicate with each other much more frequently and are more open about our feelings. I’ve always had a wonderful connection with my husband but the WLM significantly deepened the connection and intimacy with us.-Mz Kaylee

It helps me focus on the present and remove distractions  -Paul

I absolutely love the honouring and worshipping of my beloved wife.  It is an amazing level of joy for me to see her happy.  I also love that there is ZERO arguing…. I love the comfort and joy that comes from the level of respect that Mistress has for me in my role as her submissive/slave husband, and the strength and courage She feels that exists in me to allow her to be the only person on the planet that I would submit to.  -subhubphx

I’ve discovered I love being under a woman’s thumb, micromanaged, and strictly controlled.  Yes it’shard at times, but I absolutely love it. -Edward

The freedom and  the love he shows me everyday. -Pudsweda

I loved the fact that she had the chance to experience being the openly dominant one in our marriage before she left this world and I treasured having been her ‘traditional wife.’   -Tony

I am loved and cared for by a beautiful, powerful woman.  Growing up, I could never have imagined that. -Tommy

We are so in tune with each other and so much in love. Been married for over 20 years and it feels like we are newlyweds. The WLM most definitely is the reason for this. Our communication is so much better. We never have arguments. Although orgasms are infrequent for me, my sex life is off the charts – Joe D

So much. Starting with the incredible closeness, which after 31 years of relationship is greater than ever before. I'm amazed at how big my need to see her happy has become. At the same time I am amazed again and again how intense my desire to serve her has become. In 2017 - we had already been together for 29 years - I was as much in love with her as I was at 19 when we met  -Glow

I like having the final say on what movie we are going to watch and in the way we live our daily lives. I like that I get to decide how our relationship develops (the pace, the things we do or don’t do). I’m not good at asking others to do things for me, so I like that I am allowed to ask him to do things for me and I can ask him to give me sexual pleasure without feeling the need to reciprocate (this is difficult conditioning to reverse). I like that he gets pleasure from pleasing me. I like that I am allowed be my true self without apology (I’m still working on this). Lastly, and at first, surprisingly, I’m really liking the feeling of power I get from leading and controlling him. -Lady Di

I love our level of communication.  Since I told her my deepest secret upon meeting, there really has been nothing for me to hide from her.  I know she loves me deeply and that I can totally trust her.  She always cares about how I feel and always listens to me and then decides what is best for us and where she will lead us. -Sharlee

I love less fights. -Richard

We both get our needs met. When she hits my submissive buttons, I see my wife as a goddess. We are more close and loving now than before, if that was possible. -Gary

How I am treated and know that if I ask for something it is ok and I do not have to justify my wants/needs to anyone or feel fear to ask for something that some might say is selfish -Anne

She is much happier, and I am much happier too.  I feel like I am more in my “element” being surrendered and submissive to her.  Surrendering was key, telling her that I surrendered was humbling, yet very satisfying to me.   I love that our communication has improved 1000 %.  I love our weekly reviews, and after four years of doing them, if we skip a week, we both miss this specific time we spend together.  I love that my wife’s health has improved.  She is a very A Type personality, and since we have been on our Journey her sleep patterns have greatly improved along with other specific medical conditions that are typically attributed to A Types who internalize their stress.  Reducing her stress level has been joy to watch.  A better relationship, with better physical and mental health, has made for a better and enriched sex life. -Bob

 I think the things I like best are that I feel about her the way I felt when we were dating. Also you become very truthful with you wife, she doesn’t allow me to hide anything from her. -Alan

 Simply surrender and her being in control. The simplicity in some regards. -Mike